Unable to answer private messages

[cruella]

Hi Everyone.
Just wanted to say that I am not ignoring anyone who has sent good wishes to Hubby and myself.
I am able to read them but unfortunately, unable to answer anyone.
Things not too good at the moment as the Chemotherapy has really taken it's toll this time around, but want to thank everyone who has wished us well.
Special thanks to weeal, beads, lonnie, dris, and leelapops.
All your good wishes are very much appreciated. x

[SRH]

I think everyone will understand that you've got more important things going on right now - but really sweet of you to think of putting a post up at this time. You're in my thoughts (and lots of other ABers, I'm sure). Take care x

[weeal]

Cruella, am thinking about both of you and hoping, as we all are, for a speedy recovery time , then you can both put it all far behind you.
Lots of love
Al xxx

[Lonnie]

Hi Cruella,
I sent you one yesterday, like you, mine won't send, at least, I don't think its sending.
I won't repeat here what I said, but you know i'm thinking of you both constantly. so i'm grateful that you post on the situation from time to time..

Lonnie.

[smudge]

Hi cruella, not sure who is having Chemo, you or your husband, so please forgive my ignorance & hope things work out well for you both. Take great care. -xx-

[cruella]

smudge.
It is Hubby. Hurts to watch him go through all that suffering.
Lonnie,
I did get your message but unable to answerit.
That is one of the reasons I posted.
Just grateful to all you caring people. x

[leelapops]

Oh cruella, love, poor you, and poor hubby. What struggle for you both. Little consolation as it is, people are thinking of you here, and you know where to come for a chat, a rant, or just to offload.

PM me (when they work again!) if I can do anything.

Stay strong sweety :) Jack sends licks all round, that's you, hubby AND Misty-he has a LOT of lick to give! x

[filthiestfis]

Hi cruella
As posted previously on here my dad has colon cancer and is also taking chemo, has been now for 4 months, but not suffered any unpleasant side effects. Not even hair loss. What type of cancer does your husband have and is it aggressive? Im sending you my very best wishes through this hard time XXXXX
Filthiestfis

[Beads]

Dear cruella
I am really sorry to hear that your husband is suffering so badly I really am. You've been in my thoughts lots and I really do agree with weeal about the speedy recovery time.

God Bless and Hugs to you both.
xxx

[cruella]

Hi filthiesfit,
My Hubby's cancer is in the bladder.
Had it now for 4 years and having had chemo in the past quite a few times, this is the first time he has been so ill with the side effects of it.
It may well be the fact that he also had surgery at the same time.Who knows. It is also a very aggressive cancer.
Thank you for your posting. I do wish your Dad all the best for a speedy recovery.
Thanks to all who posted. x

[gelda]

Thinking of you both Cruella, I know what you're going through, keep thinking positive, I know it's hard to do sometimes but I'm sure it helps. Gelda xx

[weeal]

filthiestfis, best wishes to your dad also, its a horrible thing to go through. Take care
Al x

[Drisgirl]

I cant do PM's so that whit no-one gets one.

cruella -any time you feel like just having a scream away from your family just pop on here -or I could try to get my phone number to you.Thats why I come on here -I feel better for it and veryone bar none have helped me through my bleakest hours.

Take care hun -it must be tearing you apart -awful to see a loved one suffering. xxx

filthiestfis -my thoughts are with you as well -what a dreadful time -hope it will all be worth the suffering in the end

Fingers crossed for both of you x

[cruella]

Just wanted to thank you all for your support and replies.
Anyone who would like to keep in touch, whether to have a moan or listen to me sometimes prattling on, go to my hubby's website.
dundeelocalpages.com and go to contact me.
It is confidential. Only Hubby and myself have access to it. It is our site.
Thanks again, each and every one of you, as you have all helped us both get through this past week or so. x

[helpinghand]

i am new to this site but want to wish you well thoughts for you and your hubby. my grandmum just found out that she has stage 4 lung cancer and is starting chemo next week .
i hope for the best for you and your family.