need some help :[

[Nat13]

my boyfriend and i have just split up, and i also am quite sure i'm pregnant. we've been arguing for a long time, and have finally decided enough is enough. i haven't stopped crying all day, i just can't work out whether its due to hormones, or us splitting, or a mixture of the both.

we've split like this before, but i didn't feel half as sh!t as i do now, i just don't know if this is because i now feel this is defiantly it, whereas before i was quite sure we would get back together.

i now just wish i'd go to sleep and not wake up
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i don't know what to do anymore.

[Ice.Maiden]

You don't say how old you are Nat, but splitting up with someone at any age is never very nice. Your first task is to wait and see if you ARE pregnant.
Apart from that, you need to keep busy, so that your mind's occupied, and also go out with anyt friends you have. I think what you're crying for, is not so much the loss of your bf, but the fact that you're now on your own again. You said yourself that you'd been arguing for a long time, which shows that there was either no communication, or that the relationship'd run its course anyway. You'll look back on this one day, and perhaps see it for the escape it's meant to be. Best of luck - x

[slipnot]

Emotionally it's all too much to deal with at one time - break it down, one thing at a time. As above ABer says, first make sure you are pregnant. If so, decide if you want to proceed with having a baby. Then deal with your boyfriend (ex-b?). Talk to someone (parent, friend) who knows you well and will give the best support. This site is superb but for something like this you need to ask help/advice from someone who really knows you well. Best of luck with your future.

[China Doll]

If you are pregnant then it is very likely that this is making everything much worse for you but even if not, splitting with someone is always hard.

The suggestions that have been made about finding someone to confide in are the best, you need someone who is not in your head at the moment to help you see things a little more clearly and gain a sense of perspective. Is there someone in your life you can trust to do that?

The other thing to remember is that as cliched as it is, time does heal so much. When I went through a particularly bad split a few years back I kept telling myself 'you won't feel like this a year from now' and I didn't. You won't either. Things do have a habit of working out.