Try Yes credit, but their interest rates are horrendous, as one would expect from a lender who provides loans to those who are a high credit risk.
I don't think GuavaHalf was suggesting that you're an outcast in any way, just seeing the situation from the side of a lender, which is that a person with no recognisable income source (ie work or working partner) would be much less likely to be able to repay a loan. Whether you are able to repay a loan or not is certainly no bearing on how you are raising your children.
Also, perhaps it's your anger at what you perceived to be GuavaHalf's discrimination coming through in your post, but it seems worth pointing out that whilst knowing right from wrong and having good manners are indeed very important in childrens' upbringing, spelling and grammar also count for something.