A secret

[MiniN]

If you found out a secret about how someone close to you died 9 years ago, would it matter to you?

I'm sorry, I can't really go in to any more detail than that.

Thanks

x

[karmgirl]

It would bring all the emotions to the surface again maybe but then I would move on after all it was 9 years ago

[4getmenot]

it would depend how, and how many lies were involved

[Octavius]

It depends as some deaths by illnesses are hereditary.


If you are perhaps alluding to suicide, then yes as it may concern me that a member of my family who I knew very well (talking in actuality here) and who was the happiest person ever on the outside, could be driven to do such a thing to himself and those around him.

So yes, it probably matters quite a lot. And I would wonder why it was a 'secret'.

[Miss-Ladybug]

I would also go over things like 'why was it a secret' and really, as we dont know the details, it does depend on the circumstances and nitty-gritty.

Good luck Mini, i'll be thinking of you.

Whatever it was though, dont dwell. Let it out of you with a bucket of ice-cream for a day if needed but it was 9 years ago and as long as you are not in danger now accept and move on. Could you speak to other family members about it?

[MiniN]

thanks for the helpful replies. its a complicated situation and i understand why it was kept secret. just feel a bit numb to it really.

thanks for the support x

[4getmenot]

It might help to talk to us