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I have an abortion - one of the main reasons being not being able to afford or put a roof over babys head - but people are now telling jaideybaby that money doesn't matter and as long as there is love and affection you'll be fine.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.but jaideybaby wants all the mod cons etc. Thats the difference you just wanted a life for your baby and if I remember the dad wasnt going to stick around was he either. Jaideybaby is planning ahead I often think how will I be able to afford a baby. Whereas you made the right decision at the time. Yes they need love and affection but you still need to able to afford food, clothes. even sometimes the mummies with all the money in the world though should never have children.
karmgirl.
Please stop dwelling on the past, its done now, and "what ifs" and hindsight are not able to help change what happened.
And OK some have told her all baby needs is love etc, and thats right, but a parent whos stretched to the limit with money and all the added stresses that being broke comes with is going to be struggling somewhere.
You made the right decision at the time, if it wasnt then you would not have taken that choice. x
Please stop dwelling on the past, its done now, and "what ifs" and hindsight are not able to help change what happened.
And OK some have told her all baby needs is love etc, and thats right, but a parent whos stretched to the limit with money and all the added stresses that being broke comes with is going to be struggling somewhere.
You made the right decision at the time, if it wasnt then you would not have taken that choice. x
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well thats true, you do have to find a way. Not everyone does though, look how many neglected children there are in the world and the effect it has on them as they grow up.
But think how much easier it will be with the support of a partner (familes are great but they cant be there 24/7) and some financial stability.
But think how much easier it will be with the support of a partner (familes are great but they cant be there 24/7) and some financial stability.
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I'm not too sure the advice jaideybaby got was right - bringing up a baby on no money is very hard work indeed. I wish her luck but in your situation I suspect I'd have done the same as you did, not as she's been advised to do.
It's not wrong to dwell on what you did but you will have to learn to deal with it. Like everything else that has happened to you in your life, it's past and all you can do now is learn from it; you can't change it.
It's not wrong to dwell on what you did but you will have to learn to deal with it. Like everything else that has happened to you in your life, it's past and all you can do now is learn from it; you can't change it.
karmgirl, it is true that you do find a way to make do when you have a baby, but 'making do' is not always an option.
There are millions why babies are brought in to this world and millions of reasons why they are not. try not to compare your situation to everyone else's. you did the right thing for you at the time, otherwise you would not have done it. I'm sure some offhand comment from a stranger about money would not have changed your mind.
Try to look forwards not back. x
There are millions why babies are brought in to this world and millions of reasons why they are not. try not to compare your situation to everyone else's. you did the right thing for you at the time, otherwise you would not have done it. I'm sure some offhand comment from a stranger about money would not have changed your mind.
Try to look forwards not back. x