Sorry just wallowing again

[Mamyalynne]

To all those who helped me just over three weeks ago when i lost the love of my life , thanks again. Today would have been our 33rd wedding anniversary, so has been tough. Daughters have been great but theyve lost too, so dont want to overburden them. I know its early days but just typing this sort of helps if that doesn`t seem silly.
Better get some sleep in.
Goodnight all
Mamya
xxxx

[Ethel]

Very early days.

Take care and don't expect too much of yourself just yet.

[raysparx1]

Hi Mamya, very sad, but as Ethel says, very early days, all is dark and black at the moment, but one day the sun will shine again, and you will be able to look back and smile at all the good times, one day at the time from now on, look after yourself and take care, you have to let go and cry if you want to,never bottle up how you feel, come on here and wallow as much as you feel the need to. Ray

[sara3]

mamya, you've been through so much. I can't really add to the comments above.. both spot on. it's not wallowing, it's normal human behaviour and probably part of a long process, so look after yourself and feel free to "let it out" any time.

Sara x

[bensmum]

It's not silly at all mamya. You have recently lost someone very dear to you and this is probably the first major event that you haven't shared together. Talking or even typing about it can be a great help and, as ray says, come on here and wallow as much as you need to.
Take care
XX

[Mamyalynne]

Your thoughts and understanding are a great comfort.

Mamya x

[Drisgirl]

Mamya -come here as often as you feel the need.
Dont expect to feel better ever again but you will in time learn to live with your loss and maybe think of him without welling up.I am one year down the line and I am weeping as I type this but I know im better than I was 6months ago.
I dont ever want to forget the person we loved and lost but I am trying to come to terms with it and learning to cope.
You will find it cathartic to come on here -sometimes families are hurting too much as well -well on here you will get help,solace,advice from an extended family.

My heart goes out to you hun -try to be strong and dont ever keep any feeling within -spout them of to us cos we do understand the pain you are feeling
xxxx

[Mamyalynne]

Thanks Dris , hard not to feel guilty to as if assuming Im the only one when youve all experienced grief. But as you say sharing is a human need and it does help, especially in the darkest hours.
May all our watching Angels know how much we cherish them and remember the good times.

Mamya x

[shaneystar2]

Oh mamyalynne ..
I often see you in Q&P and didn't know you had lost your loved one .I am so sorry .My sincere condolences to you and your family .
Look after yourself
Shaney xx

[Mamyalynne]

Oh Shaney sounds daft but at times Q&P has been my saviour, as my sweet Bill knew I am puzzle/crossword mad and a mine of useless information. Sundays drove him silly with papers all over and me continually asking him all the sport related ones .LOL Happy thoughts. Still do ask him sometimes LOL.
Mamya x

[shaneystar2]

Well you keep right on puzzling and answering .I'm sure Bill is out there somewhere giving you inspiration .These little hobbies are a godsend sometimes and take your mind off things ,much as some laugh at us for being so puzzle obsessed !.
I was on holiday about three weeks ago so that is probably why I missed your sad news .
See you over there .xxx

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I hope that it is of some help. Good Luck.

[Mamyalynne]

Thankyou will look