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Under age tattoo
My step son came home he had a tattoo done he didnt show any fake ID they didn't even question his age. what shall i do should i go to the police? should i go and see this guy HELP this guy cant get away with this I very stressed out and upset .
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Hi klair, your step son went for it. I know it's annoying, but the tattoo is done. You say he didn't show any fake ID, how can you be sure? Same thing happened with my daughter, I was annoyed she had gone ahead with it despite everything, but that was her decision in the end. If you want to confront the tattooist, take your step son along and you may find out he did in fact give him fake ID.
I understand your anger klair. My daughter got hers done just above the belly button!!!!! I said to her, what happens when you are older and may be want children? That tattoo is going to look awful, name of a band ' Nirvana' She regrets it now she's older. By the way, my daughter 'told' me it was a temporary tattoo, it wasn't!
This is a link to the Cheshire Police, where it states it is a criminal offence to tattoo an under 18 and advises a parent to attend the police station
http://www.cheshire.police.uk/modules.php?modu le=faqs&action=showmain&faqIndex=T
http://www.cheshire.police.uk/modules.php?modu le=faqs&action=showmain&faqIndex=T
You cannot compare getting a tattoo with selling alcohol
Personally, as he is your step son, I would also say it has nothing to do with you it is between his mother and father
It will be exceptionally difficult to prove your step son did not show ID as hazarding an educated guess the tattoo artist will say he did
Leave the boy to regret this when he is older then you can say told you so
Personally, as he is your step son, I would also say it has nothing to do with you it is between his mother and father
It will be exceptionally difficult to prove your step son did not show ID as hazarding an educated guess the tattoo artist will say he did
Leave the boy to regret this when he is older then you can say told you so
I had a tattoo done when I was 16. Wasn't asked for ID at all. I did try and make myself look a bit older.
The fact remains that I wanted a tattoo, I went in and had it done on my own steam. If he had asked for ID, I had some fake ID ready. If he'd sent me on my way, I would have gone to another tattooist, and another, and another... until someone agreed to do it.
Perhaps go and see the tattooist, tell him your stepson was underage. If he thought he was underage and didn't bother asking, it may frighten him into thinking twice about doing it again. It may have been a genuine mistake - you really don't know for sure.
The fact remains that I wanted a tattoo, I went in and had it done on my own steam. If he had asked for ID, I had some fake ID ready. If he'd sent me on my way, I would have gone to another tattooist, and another, and another... until someone agreed to do it.
Perhaps go and see the tattooist, tell him your stepson was underage. If he thought he was underage and didn't bother asking, it may frighten him into thinking twice about doing it again. It may have been a genuine mistake - you really don't know for sure.
You cannot compare selling alchol to doing a tatoo, it is much more serious than that. If I were you I would report this incident to the police, and make sure they take matters further. As well as the legal implications of this, there is also the health risks of HIV and Hepititus if they have not cleaned their instruments correctly. Yes, I would, without doubt, report this offender to the authorities.
You have to go to the police with this one!
I can't believe folk here are telling you more or less to ignore it. All tattooists have to (or should!) ask for ID. My own tattooists will not do them if you haven't got photo ID. In his case a birth certificate alone just won't cut it. He values his license too much.
Go to the police and make a big song and dance about this.
Good luck :-)
I can't believe folk here are telling you more or less to ignore it. All tattooists have to (or should!) ask for ID. My own tattooists will not do them if you haven't got photo ID. In his case a birth certificate alone just won't cut it. He values his license too much.
Go to the police and make a big song and dance about this.
Good luck :-)