I've been told I'm scary

[tiggerblue10]

When I was out Friday night one of my colleagues said that people are scared of me at work and that I'm some kind of enforcer. My senior manager said during my mid-year review that I was a stalwart whaterver that means. I would hate to think that I'm unaproachable because I do like to help people and I'm trying to do my job to rule. I treat everybody fairly and am compassionate to those with issues. I'm a pussycat really.

It has kind of dented my confidance a bit!

[tiggerblue10]

I'm leaving AB as I'm obviously boring everyone and taking up space with my boring questions.

Goodbye!

[daniela31]

we are all too scared to answer!
;-)

[pusspuss]

tigger don't go everyone is reading gravy's wind up
having sex with prostitutes

[Bathsheba]

Ah sweetie! Don't take the hump!
You don't scare me doll.
Was alcohol involved when this conversation took place? If so, discount everything that was said! xxxx

[Drisgirl]

Yikes -you are not scary at all.

Want me to come down and tear a strip off them?

Honest peeps TB is one of the nicest people on here.

Ignore them -they are probably intimidated by the fact that you are so calm cool and collected and can deliver xxxx

[Bathsheba]

**think disregard would have been a better word there**

[Tom Braider]

But your post doesn't contain a question! Don't worry about being thought scary at work - it's a common reaction to someone who is simply good at their job and would like it if others were good at theirs. It's when people think you're always scary that you have to worry.

[Bathsheba]

In my answer, i meant, not Dris's. (now she IS scary), tee hee- only kidding :-)

[Bathsheba]

Tom- this is Chatterbank, not Yahoo Answers! I don't think it is stated anywhere that a post HAS to be a question is it? xx

[Drisgirl]

O cra@p -I was typing and didnt realsie that TB had left -I really hope she comes back and realises that we are not on here all the time -I answered as soon as I saw it.

[Bathsheba]

I'll find her + give her a nudge Dris x

[Drisgirl]

O like sometimes we dont feel the need to sound off !!

Man if you are being pedantic then perhaps she should have put a ? after- then on cue LT would have climbed on board and said that was inappropriate.

Give TB a vreak please !1


Hi Bath -i am scary lol and you are so sweet as well lol (That wasnt sarcastic BTW -you really do have a lovely sweet voice -im jealous lol)

[tiggerblue10]

:-)

[Bathsheba]

Ah there you are sweetie! Have you stopped sulking now? xxx

[tiggerblue10]

No but I think I need psyschiatric help.

[cazzz1975]

aww you are not scarey tigger, it could be that your more interested in working and the people that define you as scary are the ones who keep slacking off all the time

[Bathsheba]

Oh is that all? Join the club!! :-) xxxx

[sara3]

there is assertive, and there is aggressive.

people who are not assertive often think that assertive people are aggressive.

it's not your problem!

[Drisgirl]

O me and Bath are in that club arent we hun ? (just put the ? in for effect lol) xx

Sorry TB for being tardy -I just had a sesh and it relieves all the stresses -just thought i'd share it wtih you (the info thats all :))