legend - help needed

[bugmenot1]

Not sure where i should being but i am wondering if this should be congratulations or whether i should hang myself but either way, I am pregnant and as Steve is the only person I have slept with in 7 months now I am pretty convinced that he is the father.

I have tried to talk to him rationally about it but after spending weeks coming on to me and treating me like a princess I am now being ignored and all calls i make are blocked! A small part of me wishes i never told him but I need to sort this out!

Any advice how I can get him to talk rationally with me long enough to talk about the future and what will have to be sorted out between us? I know you are all his friends so wondered if any advice on the best way to approach him or if you could persuade him to talk to me about it?

All and any help would be great! Thank you

[funnygirl]

And Steve is Legend???

[Sgt.Rock]

Leg end would be the last person I would ask for advice on anything. Why don't you ask person with intelligence instead?

[dot.hawkes]

reported as imposter

[B00]

An imposter dotty? Who are they impostering (that's a word..right?)

And this has to be a joke...a weird one, but still a joke....

I hope.

[bugmenot1]

yes, i know him by his real name obviously but i knew he comes on here to relax and calls himself legend. At the time i found it cute as i thought he was a legend himself, now i am starting to realise no man can ever be trusted to do the right thing when mistakes happen.

If anyone knows how to get him to answer his calls please,please,please just ask him to spend 20 mins talking to me so we can just come to an arrangement where we both know where we stand and what is best for the future. I have reached the end of my options other than to leave a stupid message on a site like this in the hope that i just get one single call back to tell me what he wants to do about this.

just 20 mins steve, thats all then you can hide away again and find another girl to use.

[Lakitu]

Are you in Tenerife? Can you visit him?

[dot.hawkes]

B00 it has to be a regular user on here if it is meant to be a joke,

[B00]

If he's avoiding your calls calls and blocking, I'd take that as read that he wants nothing to do with you love. No amount of us begging him (not that any of us would mind) would change his mind.

Keep on with the pregnancy or terminate, either way you're on your own.

[dot.hawkes]

actually it is in the back of my mind that leg had had a vasectomy, cannot think why i think that, lol

[sqad617]

Firstly, don't hang yourself.


"I am pregnant and as Steve is the only person I have slept with in 7 months now I am pretty convinced that he is the father." .....Yes, sounds about right if true.

Girl and boy fall in love, girl becomes pregnant, boy exits scene. Very common occurrence. Say goodbye to Steve.

Your immediate problem is how and if you are going to continue with your pregnacy i.e do you want it or not?
Hanging yourself will certainly solve the problem for you, but bit drastic eh?

[Lakitu]

LOL!! I'm not sure I want to know how Dot thinks this!

[B00]

Wishful thinking Lak?

;-)

[PatriciaH]

Let me get this right- youre saying legend is your babies father are you ?

[dot.hawkes]

i dunno why i think it but it rings a bell somewhere lol

[PatriciaH]

PMSL a bell dot ?

[dot.hawkes]

oh gawd trish is it twins????????????

[Sgt.Rock]

If he's a few stone overweight and has a ponytail tied with an elastic band you have the right person.

[PatriciaH]

Has legend been on here anywhere today?

[PatriciaH]

a lacky band to tie his hair back ? (sniggers )

[funnygirl]

So who is this bugmenot?

They're not a greenie.