Orgasm?

[Forgotten]

my friend tell me all the time that she has an orgasm problem, she has had a boyfriend for 10 months and cannot have an orgasm during sex, and belives there is something wrong with her and has come to me for help but i have no idea what to say to her...how do i help her understand that it is not that easy and give her some advice on how she can get an orgasm in sex? HELP!

[beejay1124]

is she wanting you to give her an organism ?

[simonruss]

many women dont orgasm through intercourse, but there are many ways to bring an orgasm, oral stimulation is a good one!! failing that I could always give her a hands on lesson!!

[weeal]

beejay you think a gardening programme might help? hmm you are clever, I never thought of that

[Forgotten]

no not me, she wants advice from me on how she can get one during sex...i thought some people on here could help me out and tell her what to do? :)

[weeal]

windup alert

[Velvetee]

I hope your friend is not 15, like you are, but that's just my opinion!

she probably isn't having an orgasm, because both her and her boyfriend are inexperienced . Perhaps her boyfriend does not know where her Clitoris is, or how to stimulate it.

Communication is the key.

[sqad617]

velvetee, I have seen and read many of your answers and you are clearly an expert on the clitoris and orgasms. Your partner is a lucky guy and all the very best for the impending birth.

[Velvetee]

Thanks Squad. But as a woman, it is important to know one's body. Without this knowledge and the ability to communicate with a partner, then a sexlife will be very unfulfilling.

[sqad617]

Why didn't we meet years ago? LOL.

[daniela31]

Most women know where their clitoris is sqad. It's not a mystery to us.only you blokes seem to need a map as to where it is, so the easiest answer to this question is........show your man which buttons to press girls. If you are still stuck then buy a manual................yes you guys.....there are manuals for sex besides manuals for cars!!
read it together and have some fun practising what turns each other on.

[sqad617]

daniela.......confused by your answer.......do you mean that the clitoris is in a different place when you are in a car....hence the 2types of manuals.

[MrBounty]

Punctuation is the key! lol

[terambulan]

experience brings orgasms. Read Karma-sutra and try different ways but remember if you want orgasms YOU have to help yourself.....tell/ask the OH your 'pleasurable' needs during intercourse.

[legendis.god]

So women have orgasms too ?�

[bronnie-d]

To the above. clearly :P:) hahaha

Is your friend maybe new to sex ? if so then that could be it. the first couple of times i had sex i didnt orgasm. but then as me and my boyfirnd got more experienced it just happned :) And yeah it helped telling him how to (blushes hehe ) go/ move so maybe just tell your mate that :) hehe

hope ive helped

[pippa1981]

Hi :-)

I had this same problem with an x-boyriend!

Some girls can orgasm from internal stimulation (g-spot) whilst others can only orgasm from Clitoris stimulation (like me!) I solved my little problem by going on top!!
That way the Clitoris will rub against his skin & your on your way to cloud 9! lol