my mates been dumped - only an hour ago...help!

[joko]

what can she text him back?

hes just text her to say 'hope you're ok, see you friday x' (to pay her some money he owes her)

to be fair he was seemingly very nice to her, an theres no-one else involved...an he said he wasnt sure he was doing the right thing... but just feels he needs to be 'free'

but she wants him back...

so she wants a good few, poignant, 'one-liners' to text in order to make him 'think' and hopefully 'realise' that he has lost someone special - if you get me...

any ideas??

(i dont know why they have split up tho...i just said id have a think an get back to her - ive no idea though)

(thanks for all replies, but please no lectures on its for the best and nasty jokes etc - i haven't time an can't be arsed... shes waiting, and im not goin to pass all your opinions on to her...thanks)

[Barmaid]

Best thing she can do is to make out she doesn't give a damn - nothing more unattractive to a bloke than a woman who is desperate for him. I would suggest something like "OK, that's fine. See you Friday, but can you make it a & o clock because I am off out. Take care."

[rcl1]

I would just tell her to keep it brief and say something like 'I am always here if you need to talk, sorry it didn't work out between us and i'll see you friday'

Keep it brief but without grovelling.

[rcl1]

Oooh! I like barmaid suggestion as well.

[no-knowledge]

is she 12?

[squillakid]

He's obviously had a better offer so i doubt a text joke however jovial it is,is going to make him come running back with his tongue hanging out panting,but good luck with that!

[poltergeist]

no-know thats a sick question

[Barmaid]

Oh and after the "that's fine" text tell her to LEAVE IT - worse thing she can do is become a text pest. He wants space, she needs to give him that. She needs to adopt the attitude that if you love someone set them free, if they come back (of their own accord) they are yours, and if not, well it was not meant to be and there are plenty more fish out there.

[no-knowledge]

polter

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/P review/Question710430.html

[stokemaveric]

poltergeist....i think what nokno means is.....isnt she old enough to think for herself.........i hope.......lol

[stokemaveric]

hey nokno i never posted that question in body and soul....

[Barmaid]

Stoke, I think there is a fault. When I clicked on the link it came up with me at the top. It's done this before.

[ummmm]

She should arrange to meet him Friday regarding the money. Before they meet she should text him and say she can't make it as she has a date....would Saturday afternoon be okay??...!!!

[ummmm]

No know....don't knock 'joko'. she's been here a long time. That question was genuine and I've had convo's similar....

I think she may have bigger balls than you :-)

[no-knowledge]

Stokie it's joko's post .
i am still trying to fathom joko out she (yes she) spends her time talking to blokes in a pub about finding 12 year old children sexualy attractive.

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[stokemaveric]

thank you barmaid.....i was mortified when i saw that.....thank you......

[no-knowledge]

surely i am allowed to think that is strange ummm?
if you don't you don't but i do.

[legendis.god]

ummmm gotta say nono has a point

wouldnt like male mates who thought 12 year old girls looked sexy


sorry


just not nice


as for the girl dumped why cnt she be straight with him?�

i hate how women automatically need to play some game

ffs



be honest if he snot interested itll save both your time


all these games between men and women really p1ss me off its patetic ffs


oops

sorry folks

[stokemaveric]

lol nokno....well i reckon we ought to find ''her'' a good physciatrist...............

[sleepy1j]

why has that got my name on it ????? i never asked that .

[dot.hawkes]

Hi joko, why text? tell her that's his way but it's not the decent way, tell her to have a proper conversation with him and show him how people with class communicate