Relationship prob

[babybooxxxx]

Ive been in a relationship for a while now. The thing is, I feel selfish and seem to have a moan at him a lot and get annoyed that when I want to see him (When Im not working long hours) and he cant see me. Hes been divorced now for about 5 months (seen the papers) but hes still living with his wife and daughter due to finances at the moment. Am I wrong to be ****** off? By the way, I got hurt in a previous relationship anyway so its not like I want him to move in. Just a bit more commitment on hes part.

[country_boy]

Maybe he's got a bit more on his plate than you have at the moment

[woofgang]

financial circs or not, divorce papers or not, are you sure that this person is ready to move on to the committment that you want ?(sorry about the jargon). How long is "a while" if its years, then my first statement applies in spades, if its months, are you moving ahead of what this chap wants from a relationship in his present circs.

Its not whether you are wrong or right, but being really blunt, are you going to get what you want out of this relationship (doesn't sound like it to me at the moment anyway) if not, could it be time to end it nicely and move on?

[BUNNY]

I'm divorced myself and with hindsight know I wasnt fit for a new relationship for quite a while after it.Its an emotionally stressful experience.Give him his space for a while.You'd be building on a pretty shaky foundation if you launched into something serious right now.

[georgit79]

I really think you have every right to be a little pee'd off if your boyfriend is still living with his ex-wife. That's a bit of a weird situation you've got there!

[secretspirit]

If you don't want him to move in with you, and he's still paying the mortgage on his ex-wife's house plus child support he probably can't afford to live anywhere else. Don't be so hard on him until you suggest moving in together and he says no - that would be different.