It's Been Years & I Can't Forget Him =(

[lucy8]

So, there was this guy who I had a fling with about 4 years ago. Out of anger of him being a dog I decided to date someone else who I am still with. The problem is I still think about that guy from the past like every day, when I'm with my boyfriend, I dream about him, I have even woke up in the morning to reach out him.

I do not know what is wrong with me. I mean a really cared about that guy, I was in love with him as he claimed he was with me, but the last time I bumped into him was over a year ago. Like he was going to school out of state, while we had our fling and we had all these plans when he was done with school, but none of them came true and he had a girl at school, which is why we ended everything.

I don't know, I guess my question is has anyone else felt like this and if you have what has happened? I've asked my friends and none of them have ever continued to think about someone everyday after not having a relationship with them in years. I think I'm crazy or something and need to get some medicine. I wish I could forget I ever knew him, so I could be fully happy with my boyfriend.

[Marijn]

It's probably only cos you haven't got him that you think about him all the time.
If you did have him you'd probably think he was a pain in the bum.

[sqad617]

"Out of anger of him being a dog "

I will never understand women as it seem that the worse you treat them, the more they want you.

Answers on a post card.

[angel21]

Sqad - I used to go out with someone who didn't treat me very well, he was enotionally manipulative and just plain nasty sometimes. He did have a nice side too which is why I stayed with him so long. When I first went out with him I thought he was exciting and dangerous and it was fun but I soon realised he was a ******* to women too. I now want a nice man who I can settle down with.

Lucy, if you have a good relationship now I would highly recommend that you don't forfeit this by letting your imagination about this man who you had a fling with 4 years ago. It is a long time ago, you cant have known him terribly well if it was only a fling and besides he might have changed. I know its not as easy as that to just forget him but you have to keep trying. Just focus on your boyfriend and how you can make your present relationship great.