Well you're being exceptionally threatening to the users of the answerbank, so I'm not quite sure why you didn't defend your wife against those two awful girls.
And I hope your later posts have been truthful about loving your wife, because she needs you more than ever at the moment.
If I ever found my fiance speaking about me in this way, I'd be devastated, this is the kind of thing that starts eating disorders. People told me I was fat and ugly (despite being extremely petite) and I got so involved in it, that I felt something had to be done, so I lost a lot of weight, to an unhealthy point, with an anorexic state of mind. And was later diagnosed with anorexia.
Support your wife, love every second of being with her, tell her she's beautiful. And don't ever say anything that you've said on here, it WILL scar for life.