instant dislike

[wendilla]

Also have you ever taken an instant dislike to someone even though they have never spoken to you? I have I just can't help it .

[beejay1124]

this could be a long thread wendy
:0)

[sara3]

I've felt unsure of people, but you have to give folk a fair crack of the whip! you could be missing out on someone nice if you're giving out bad vibes...

[wendilla]

Lol to Beejay. Yes sarah you are right but when you get this feeling nothing will make you like that person but perhaps that is only me that thinks that. There is one woman in street she has done me no harm and first time I saw her I did not like her . And still don't.. And I don't think I am better than anyone else.

[Red-Dwarf]

Go and speak with her. You cannot make a judgment on a person without even speaking to them.

[ChuckFickens]

Sara has an instant dislike for people that call her Sarah :)

[sara3]

well, I wouldn't say dislike but............. ;o)

[wendilla]

Red- Dwarf I am not making judgement on her .I just can't help it I just don't want to speak to her. It is awful I know as she has never done me any harm. I do make friends easily so it is not that it is just me.

[afcjan]

used to work with a woman who I couldnt stand, didnt like her or want to speak to her, and if she used the toilet at work before me I would go and find another one. there was something i wasnt comfy with her.

[DebsyDoo]

Wend, I understand exactly what you mean - I also get that feeling and it's not often wrong, (in my experience)

You're not a Scorpio by any chance are you ?

[tiggerblue10]

I took an instant dislike to someone at work who joined us a couple of months back during the induction I was carrying out. She was sacked 2 weeks later for insubordination, rudeness to 2 other members of staff and refusing to get up off a chair that was specifically assigned to someone under the DDA.

She reminded me of Charley Uchea from BB 2 years ago.

[wendilla]

Yes Depseydoo I am .I can make friends for life but if someone upsets me I don't forgive very easily and I have a sting in my tail lol

[sqad617]

wendilla....I have lefr you na message on one of the "Good Morning " threads.

[DebsyDoo]

Knew it Wend !!
We are the best !
At least we're honest, if you don't like someone, why pretend ? Likewise - I'd rather know where I stand with someone (& vice-versa) than be two-faced !

[wendilla]

Hi Squad thats a coincidence as I think I was there about 74.then I went to work at the Sherwood Residence at top of Mansfield road. Used to live in Gill Street but went back there 5 years ago and houses are all gone and new ones built .

[sqad617]

Which ward were you on?
I was SR in ENT and had a little "Pad" on the Walkway, I think it was called, opposite the Private Block.

[andy-hughes]

I think our insincts are primeval, and we lack the skills to interperet our feelings, but they can often be proved right.

It probably dates back to prehistoric man who would instinctively be wary of someone from another tribe who may smell, look, or just 'feel' different, and i think this instinct is still with us.

For me, it even extends to people on TV - of whom I obviously have no personal experience. I am sure Alan Titchmarsh is really a perfectly nice guy but ...

I am a Scorpio too!

[DebsyDoo]

Welcome on board Andy !!
Scorp's rule !
(for me it's that Ginger bloke on CSI Miami !)

[Drisgirl]

It must be a Scorpio thing as I am one as well.
I instictively know if I can entrust anyone to 'enter' my life -not that its anything grand- but I dont have a load of friends (through choice) as I shield myself until I know I can trust them- the ones I have are the best in the world.

If you dont feel comfy with someone wendilla then dont berate yourself -just be yourself.

[krazydiamond]

I don't like, Jeremy Clarkson and Jonathan Ross.
I am also a scorpio

[hc4361]

I took an instant dislike to Michelle Holmes many years ago and can't bear to watch her at all.
I don't know why. I haven't nothing against blowsy women in general, just her.