virginity regrets

[mimigreen]

do any of you regret losing your virginity because you didn't love/like/know the person you lost it to?

[tigga]

I regret it in a way as it was a one night stand and i lost it to a girl who had been a very close friend for about 15 years, and it kind of changed the friendship.

I would have preferred it to have been with a girl i was in a relationship with.

[daddyg]

Nae danger. I was a 14 year old boy and was delighted back then. Now it's not something I ever really think about and I certainly don't regret it although I must admit I'd be horrified if it was my daughter at 14 now.

[Greedyfly]

I lost mine to the love of my life and we are still together.

[kalise25]

I lost mine to my then boyfriend at the age of 19, whom I thought I loved; but I do regret not waiting until I met the man I'm with now. Maybe I just think I was a bit too young then to realise what I was doing, and my current boyfriend (which sounds a bit rubbish, like I change them every week like the hand towel in the bathroom!) would have appreciated me more. I think he's a lot more deserving (if that's the right way of putting it) of my love.  

[CHOPS'R'US]

I don't regret it just kind of glad i got it over with in all honesty there was alot of pressure at school about it and it seemed the done thing at the time. In all honesty i would rather have some experience than none so i know what i'm doing in bed and also what i like etc...

[El D]

I think there is a tendency to wait for the perfect moment etc which I think is a bit rubbbish - its a natural act and tho you should only perform it when you want to, any time is the right time if you are ready. I dont think its such a big thing as they alway make out to the E4 generation.

[georgit79]

yes.

[ICEMANSAV]

Not at all.

[nicola_red]

I did love the guy, or I thought I did at the time, but I still regret it cos he was useless!  He told me he was experienced and with hindsight I think he was lying.  I don't think it really mattered whether I loved him but I do wish he had known what he was doing so I had had a better first experience.

[CiderMonkey]

we'd been going out for a few months, but i didn't love the guy. He spun me the old 'i think i'm falling for you line' and i was terribly flattered - we were 16 and all my mates had fancied him. It was rubbish, actually, he didn't know what he was doing really, beyond the obvious. I wouldn't say i regret it, but it wasn't the best experience either. it had to happen with someone, but it probably would have been a lot better if i had waited for someone that actually mattered.

[natalie_1982]

Bit of both.  I do regret the fact that we didn't care for eachother and that my fella now would have been a much better candidate, but I wouldn't change a single detail about my life as I would not be or be with the person I am now :)

[Octavius]

Nope, took me 6 months of tlc to get there and we loved each other to pieces for 11 years afterwards.  It's all over now but I have no regrets.

 

 

[Octavius]

Nope, took me 6 months of tlc to get there and we loved each other to pieces for 11 years afterwards.  It's all over now but I have no regrets.

 

 

 

[Octavius]

So good I said it twice....

[FTVS]

Yes and No. I did like the guy and it was actually ok but with the benefit of hindsight, I wish there'd been a bit more love and lot less booze. I did feel that I was a bit out of my depth trying to deal with sex: in retrospect I simply wasn't emotionally mature enough to deal with something that, for me anyway, has such a powerful, emotional effect. 

I would also echo a comment above though, that I was really glad/relieved to get it out the way... peer pressure, eh?!

[bernardo]

I DON'T KNOW YET

[Morrisonker]

not at all, and I'm glad that it was him.  I know that I'm bound to say this, because we're still together, but I honestly can't imagine looking back on the experience without smiling.  We were both really cautious because it was the first time for us both but everything was great. 

What i do regret is the drunken fumble at a party a few months before i met my boyfriend.  that made me feel pretty horrible so i can't imagine ever having sex with someone i don't really know.

[Scarlett]

I don't regret it, as I got it out of the way. But it would have been nice to have been in love.

[Weaza_cfc]

ditto bernardo

[mimigreen]

thanks everyone, your answers have been great. i recently nearly lost my virginity to someone that i didn't know that well, he was very experienced(20 years older) but he was so big! and i was so tight it hurt so much we had to stop. i agree with E ID that it's not such a big deal. but i've decided i'm going to wait for someone i really like who is younger and hopefully smaller!