What Is Going On With Him?!!? Please Help?!?!

[beckybrown08]

im Seventeen and am 26 weeks pregnant, My ex is 20 and we had been together near enough 2 years, However he didn't react to well and he didn't talk to me for a while.
So i decided that his parents needed to know,so i went over to talk to them,and luckily they where really understanding, and really supportive, Of course he was not happy about this and carried on ignoring me.
A few weeks later i got a random text from him asking me if i was 'ok?',and asking if he could come see me?. So i decided to let him, he came to my house and we talked about things, After he had been at mine a while he asked if he could feel my belly and i let him.
After that things went wrong,he didn't talk to me for months on end. Then in August i saw i had a random missed call from him, obviously i was surprised as i had not heard from him in months, We got texting and talking and he seemed fine he kept asking me if i have anyone new? 'or who was i sleeping with' ,we talked for a while and when i told him how far i was he seemed shocked. When we got talking about the baby he decided to text and say 'miles for a boy,grace for a girl ' I was SO happy i thought this was his coming around to the situation!.
He seemed fine for weeks with everything,then one day he stopped talking to me.I was so confused he had completely messed with my head! So i rung his parents just to say me and him had been talking etc..And he had lied :|, he had told them that he had, had no contact with me what so ever.. he had also told them that i had been slagging the family of, WHICH I HAD CERTAINLY HAD NOT!, He lied so much :# and i don't really know why?!, Because he was coming around. His dad told him to change his number, i think this is because they think that i lied about his contacting me, i even said i have them in my inbox and i will bring them to show you! The other day i tried texting him, and he has changed his number. What is going on with him!? :(. I Dont understand it

[hundreddolla]

Sounds like he's doing what he's doing because he's scared. He's 20 and about to have an instant family he can probably ill afford.

[cazzz1975]

its come as a shock, he is only 20, men in their 30s struggle to deal with parenthood so I would imagine he is bricking it, Im guessing this pregnancy was unplanned by him?

[Sqad]

becky...you posted this thread a week ago.................anything changed?

[redcrx]

as has already been said before, you really need to try and think about the baby, all this stress wont be doing you any good at all.

The lad is probably scared, i bet you are too, of becoming responsible for the upbringing of a child, both emotionally and financially.

If he doesnt want to be contacted you have little choice but to continue this without him. I hope that have plenty of support from your own family and friends.

[Sqad]

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