"why do you want to pacify her?"why do you think,or would you rather sit their listening to your baby screaming??and so what if it's more peaceful for you?!having a baby only 3 weeks ago maybe it would be nice to give your baby a dummy to PACIFY her and to actually catch up on a nap or have a brew,a shower,go to the loo,eat something,get dressed.......list is endless!i have sat there many times with other friends who dont do dummys,listening to their baby screaming and having to leave after 10 minutes to take them back home,or even worse shoving their fingers in to suck,and then try and eat with one hand,its bloody ridiculous,its your child if you want to give them a dummy then do it,also orthodontic ones,they bend up fit in the roof of mouth so have nothing to do with their 'goofy' teeth!