i stop taking bc could i be preg?

[shonta01model]

I stop taking birth control in sep 4 and I didnt not come on that month no spotting or anything.I had all types of crazy pregancy feelings. so I took a test and got a neg the first time the second time I got a very blue faint line and after that I got all negs. I usually get my period every 4th thursday of every month. I came on the second week of oct and stayed on about 5 days not to heavy but heavy than it used to be. I sometimes feel like I am preg but I dont want to go to the doctor and have to waste my money if I am not. I DONT have insurance anymore so I have to pay out of pocket for right now. this is now nov and I had sex the other night and my hubby woke me up and said that I was bleeding. I said bleeding it was light and didnt get on the sheets but I am afaid because I dont know if this is my perid or what. I dont have any vigianl diesease or anything so I am freaking out know. thank you so much

[sara3]

I'd say it's time to go to the doctors. perhaps renew your insurance first.

[mcmelon]

If the bleeding is quite heavy but not horrifically so then i douct it's something seriously wrong but definitely needs checking out. If you're bleeding that I don't think you can be preg. Is there any chance that you were very early preg but miscarried? Hope you get sorted out. x

[Sqad]

It is extremely unlikely that you are pregnant.

[shonta01model]

Yes i am going to check with the insurance company. I will go see the docotor for a check up it will be 50 dollars. I have a 2 year old and been on birth control for 2years now. I miss a couple of birth control pills and I stopped a little bit. I can off B.C in sep 4 and didnt have any spotting or anything that month. I also took a Pregancy test and had a very faint positive blue line and the rest after that was neg. people say that when you have a miscarrgie its like bad 3 times worst as cramps but I dont know how a miscarrige feel and look like.
Thank you all for the help I am so worried I cand what to see what the insurance people tell me because it might be a wait for pregant woman to get beneifits right away.

[ummmm]

Many women have miscarriages without even knowing it.

[shonta01model]

My period is not like the others when i was on Birth contorl. my period is very light and only last 4 days. I been having clots like I use to before I had my 2year old son. But these cloths are tissue like and only happend one time today. My period also had a wet and watery look ewwwwwww. I didnt have cramps when on my Birth control pills. But today my stomach had little movement in it weird uhh. I am ready to go to the doctor

[shonta01model]

to: UMMMM
can a doctor tell if a women had a miscarrige? I sure hope so.

[ummmm]

When you come off the pill (BC) strange things can happen. I've got a contraceptive implant and haven't had a period for 2.5 years. I'm dreading the day I have to have it taken out.

[shonta01model]

to UMMMM
I would be happy not to have a period. but If someone wanted to have a baby they couldnt
are you getting ready to have a baby?
Do it make you tried?

[ummmm]

Probably...if you get to see them soon enough.

I had a very early miscarriage years ago. The doctor said that I was pregnant but I'm not anymore.

[ummmm]

I'm not sure what you're asking in your last post?

[shonta01model]

are you getting ready to try for a baby ?
am sorry about what happen with your pregancy.
if you are trying for another baby I wish the best of luck?

[ummmm]

No...that happened about 16 years ago. I was very young at the time. I have 3 kids now...not sure I would have anymore although my partner wants one.

[shonta01model]

congrats I would love to have 3 kids but it is alot of work with more kids. Mothers seem to do more for the kids as for making sure that the kids are healthy and making sure that they have mother love, but its mother love. fathers do make sure that the kids are okay but I THINK that the mothers are the big role in thier kids. Thank you for your help.

[ummmm]

It was easier than I thought. The youngest is 11 so there's not much looking after now. Just feeding, watering, homework and cuddles.....and picking up all the crap they leave behind them :-(

Are you actually trying for a baby?

[shonta01model]

Yes my hubby wanted to try for baby to see if we can try for another little boy.

[ummmm]

So you already have 1 son?

Why not a little girl? What do you want?

[shonta01model]

I wanted to have 2 sons and a little girl. I wanted my little girl last beacuse I wanted to give her the things that my mother did give me when I was little. I didnt have that mother to mother talk when gowing up. my mother didnt let me play things in highschool or anything like that. My mother also have two sons and Me. So I wanted to my daugther happy because I didnt get treated right when I was little. My mother was loving and still is till this day now that i am older but I wish that we could have been closer. I was a lot closer to my daddy than I was with my mother but I also wanted that with my mother

[ummmm]

My daughter's the eldest. I'm not a girly girl so we had stages where we didn't get on. She's a great girl though, a great sense of humour, good morals and very beautiful. It doesn't matter what order they come in....you'll love your miniature people anyway.

Although in my opinion girls are harder work...

[shonta01model]

that what most people say about their little girl or girls. but i was a good girl I didnt give my mother any problems I did what see wanted me to do it was the boys she had to make sure they was in line.