Whats he playing at?

[strawberryblonde]

Hi I wold really appreciate any advice anyone can offer. For months now this man has been coming on to me I wouldnt have anything to do with him because he had a girlfriend well a few weeks ago he ended it with her and I had a night with him it didnt live up to expectations and when I next saw him I was very cool to him this went on for couple of weeks then he said something to upset me I sent him some nasty texts which I should not have done. When I saw him the following week he was really friendly he was out with a woman but kept coming over to my friend and I and never mentioned the texts last night I wasut with some fiends and so was he saw him in most bars we went in and he came over in everyone he spent about 90% of the night talking to us he kept making suggestive commentstold me how good I looked but when I jokingly mentioned going out he looked horrified.
I am not a young girl I have grown up children but cannot get him out of my head. Why would he spend all night talking to me only to back off like that.

He is an attractive man and has lots of women flirting with him One woman who he knows came over when he was stood with us and asked him if he was going home said she would share taxi with him but it was obvious what she was offering and he refused he has loads of women younger and more attractive than me flirting with him His sister told me that he told her he likes me but cant work me out. After the one night it was me who backed off not him it was the night after and we had arranged to meet in a certain bar as we had both made previous plans with friends when I went in he came straight over and offered to buy me a drink I felt uncomfortable and found it difficult to be friendly after that meeting he always comes over andis so friendly my own sister who comes out with us says if she was him she would not even bother o talk t me because I am so offhand with him.

shellx

[ummmm]

Thrill of the chase....

(you need to use some full stops)

[TTG]

He is a player. Move on, plenty more fish in the sea.

[bednobs]

my question would be what are YOU playing at? It's very unclear from your post whether you want him or not

[kojak]

I gotta headache reading that without breath, strawberryblonde.

[China Doll]

Agree entirely with bednobs. You said your evening with him was unsatisfactory so why are you even thinking about him. Make a decision as to whether you're interested in him, if so, ask him for a drink. If not, stop messing about as it sounds like you're just enjoying the attention.

[mccfluff]

ouch head hurting

i think i agree with China, if i understood your post correctly. Stop messing about decide what you want and gor for it and if he turns you down don't be surprised

[whoopi1]

Hi Shell
I am sorry to hear that and sorry to tell you that.He is not worth it and he is just playing with you.Just be friends with him.And enjoy yourself.He knows you like him and thats why he is playing with you.If he didnt come to you till now then he is not worth it.If he would really like you he would come to you and ask you what is between you two.Or just go to him and ask him straight what he want from you friendship or more.I think he is to you like this cos he doesnt really know what he want.May be he just want to have a fun but always come to you cos what ever happen he knows you will be there for him ,cos he knows you like him.I would be just friends with him,and show him what he could have with you.May be he will miss you and come to you himself but if not then that means you are wasting time with him and may be could be happy with someone else.Good luck

[sacha.86]

he was chasing you whilst he had a gfriend. Do u want some1like that?