male sexuality

[turnip]

Does size matter

[andy hughes]

That depends on who is asking! Seriously - if you're bothered about measuring up in communal showers, then maybe you have an issue, but if, as I suspect, you mean in terms of sexual activity, the answer is probably no. Women consider sexual satisfaction in lots of different ways - gentleness, consideration, willingness to follow non-verbal signals, the list goes on, but the myth about penis size is perpetuated by men, not by women. Your partner will appreciate you for the reasons above, plus plenty of others, and if she compares you to past partners, and advises you that you don't measure up, look for someone else!

[dreich]

Only to other men as males seem to be competitive on every level! As Andy says, women value faithfulness, humour, consideration and affection well beyond the odd inch or so. And men who are too into themselves seldom make considerate partners.

[incitatus]

Dont worry about it. even if you have a very severe inch shortfall there are so many things you can do in the bedroom to compensate that it will never be an issue.

[incitatus]

Of course being too large can cause the odd problem, but nothing that cranberry juice cant sort out.

[FionaS]

It doesn't really matter, as, as Incitatus says, you can do a hell of lot else. In fact, I find smaller men are often better lovers they try harder and big men sometimes rely on the size of their penis. A bit of size is nice bonus, I think. But this is a more a case of idealizing along the lines of really fancying Hugh Grant but sleeping with someone who looks more like Hugh Laurie.

[FionaS]

PS Incitatus - what is this about Cranberry Juice...?

[CharlieMouse]

It is not the size of the ship it is the motion of the ocean! lol ... It really doesn't matter, trust me, I am female!

[clairus99]

i hate to say this (!) but from my experience it doesn't. i once had a boyfriend with a mere diddler who was fantastic. mind you i had another with a large one who was also fantastic, ergo, doesnt matter - it's the general technique that's the thang

[incitatus]

The cranberry juice thing: If there is a severe mismatch in sizes in his favour, or a bit too much enthusiasm the resulting cystitis can, I am told, be troublesome. Cranberry juice is very good at clearing up mild cystitis. Hope thats a bit plainer.

[lillie]

Well to be brutally honest, it is sexier when a man is big and I don't know a girl who doesn't think that. Just like plenty of men like bigger breasts. But hopefully most men wouldn't be so shallow as to not consider a woman with smaller breasts (although some would) and likewise although there are women out there who would refuse to date a small man, there are some whom it would not bother at all. Each to their own, I say - we cannot help our sexual tastes.

[rache001]

I' m not bragging but I get a decent amount of girls. I prefer women with smaller to average size breasts. I know that psycholohgicaly men prefer women with bigger breasts because they can provide much milk for their children and women psychologicaly prefer men with big D***S becuase they have a greater chance of getting pregnant. I stress this is psychological no thought involve. I use rational I like a girl who doesn't flop her t**s in my face. I hope this isn't to graphic ;)

[ursula38uk]

To Rache001, just to let you know that bigger boobs actually don't produce more milk! And as for size, yes it does matter, but then man bits aren't sexy whatever the size! As long as they serve the purpose!

[rache001]

ursula, 1)Big boobs = healtier and more milk. 2)a woman's "junk" is ugly. Men are sexualy and irrisitably attracted to it but many people would dispute its aesthetic properties. As a matter of fact most men describe the vagina as smelly and disgusting. We like it for the same reason you like our thing to "serve the purpose!" If anything men's organs have traditionaly been the more astheticaly pleasing. Just look at all the classical artwork and furthermore the very word "penis" is latin for "paintbrush".

[clairesmith]

Of course it matters! Don't kid yourself. If it's larger and thicker then it feels better than a small tiddly todger.

[christian]

Rache001 says "most men describe the vagina as smelly and disgusting" MOST MEN?????? Most misogynists perhaps. And "a woman's 'junk' " , methinks Rache has a few issues of (his) own!

[Edster]

I count myself amongst the honest average, not the "large" average usually quoted, and have had no complaints. Also, my girlfriend likes it "the other way" sometimes, and she's said she wouldn't do it if I was bigger. ps. Incitatus - wasn't that the name of Caligula's horse?

[kit_friend]

rache, umm hate to break it to you but alot of breast size has to do with fat deposits so if you're going to say that size has anythign to do with health then u could in fact prove your point not only to be wrong but totally contrive the truth. If you think more fat = unhealthy that is....

[Haitch]

Actually my wife was a B cup before she got pregnant and now, whilst breast feeding, has risen to a breath taking, full flowing, double D. You can't tell the milk yield you'll get until after they develop to produce milk. If you've got large breasts & you haven't had kids it's either fatty tissue (not saying you are fat generally, just that any fat on your body may accumulate there) or silicon. I actually like smaller breasts but I'm enjoying the change at the moment. PS Pick petite dark haired women - they're supposed to have more & better orgasms.

[DavidUK]

I think breasts and vaginas are beautiful and sexy - some more so than others. And, surely some women find men's bits sexy even if "ursula38uk" doesn't. I find my bits sexy and I'm only a man (without any gay tendencies!).