I suspect the boys will say first date please ..... but how many dates would it take for you to feel comfortable sleeping with someone... and of course the bit before he falls asleep?
I don't know. Like I said in the other thread I've never been out with someone I don't already know so the barriers are already down. I was with current BF for about a month before we did the dirty deed.....considering I seen him most days as well I suppose it's quite a long time.
when i was available and dinosaurs stalked the land, I used to ask myself one question....would i share a toothbrush with this person? It certainly focusses the decision making process.
Depends... I've had sex on first dates but generally because the spark was there but that was it so a bit of rudies was ok but I sure as hell didn't want to see them the next day. I've also had dates where I've wanted to wait a bit longer as there was spark and a personality that I quite liked so this warrented further investigation as rudies had the potential to have a more personal level rather than just getting your rocks off.
I'm perfectly comfortable sleeping with someone... Just on my terms ;0)