hi, just seen this...thanks for asking..
he rang me many times, but i just ignored it...and when i eventually answered we talked for about an hour...hes still not totally understanding the problems we have...but he is prepared to try and acknowledges that things should be differernt...so we are having a week or so of no contact to think and to decide what to do next... to be honest im not so sure theres much point...dont think he'll ever 'get it'... but i suppose i have to give the chance to try...he seems to want to so....
ill let you know of anything comes of it
im still blue but feeling much better now
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