Sex on a first date...yes or no...?

[rowanwitch]

You like them...the opportunity arises would you go home after a chaste kiss or go s*ddit lets book into a hotel...
Asking for a friend you understand....

[factor-fiction]

Is she offering?

[Mamyalynne]

No way!!

[mrs_overall]

If he looked like Jeremy Clarkson....I'd be tempted

[Mick-Talbot]

not if you like them enough to want to carry on seeing them

[poodicat]

You talking about redman?

[boxtops]

Hmmmm....what a dilemma :-)

[Buenchico]

You mean that some people manage to get a SECOND date, then? What have I been doing wrong for all these years?!!!

[lardhelmet]

Two chances on the second option - fat & none

[Mick-Talbot]

and what does your friend Redman say rowan ?

[China Doll]

I imagine two fully growed up people in full possession of their mental faculties should be able to come to their own conclusions.... I hope I haven't set my standards too high!

[237SJ]

If it was a date with someone I didn`t know very well, no way. If it was someone I liked from work or somewhere and already knew well and we managed to get together, maybe.
My friend slept with her husband on the first date. They knew each other quite well from working together so wern`t exactly strangers when they had their first date.

[askyourgran]

No. No. and No. Get to know a bit more about them first.

[carlton23]

Be patient, if it`s worth waiting for it will be all the better when it happens.

[cazzz1975]

I wouldnt, I would savour the getting to know you bit and the chemistry bit before bumping uglies.

[supersuezy24]

Nope

[woofgang]

two answers.....no and HELL NO

[rowanwitch]

For me actually it would be a definite no....but I have been out of the game a long time....wanted to know if I was being old fashioned

[4getmenot]

does it have to be a date?

[jno]

sex alone is no basis for a relationship.

But together...