My fella left me for somebody else last week

[cluster1]

and I am so sad and lonely on this Christmas day.
I just don't know how I am going to get through it.

[Purple_Popple]

Sorry to hear of your plight Cluster1, i guess most on hear can validate just how low you are feeling right now, most of us have been there and we do sympathize, there are no fast cures to help you nor are there the correct words that can ease your pain right now, you just have to deal with it in your own way, cry if you need to ....take no notice of the obnoxious nasty comments some feel the right to post on here, they should be banned...of which I can see their posts have now been removed. good. take care of yourself and be kind to yourself, you have suffered a loss and it is like grieving in a way, a lost love. I wish you well. PP x

[DTCwordfan]

so what did eyethenkyew do or say to pizz off the AB-ed tonight............?

[Purple_Popple]

who is 'eyethenkyewe' ??? The nasty Lady on here ???

[Purple_Popple]

I then Q ???

[welshlibranr]

so sad for you cluster, but if he wasn't the one for you, very heartless to do this at Xmas!......you'll get past him!.......be strong!.............

[cazzz1975]

looks like he is banned as well, hmmm..

[welshlibranr]

Oh, felt so sad for you!..........so why are you both banned?........

[smurfchops]

Sorry to hear that cluster, bad at any time of year, but especially now. You will feel better in a couple of months, hopefully ready to move on . Christmas is just another day like any other, don;t worry too much. Good luck. Let us know how you get on.

[society]

Perhaps your fella felt that he has grown apart from you and was getting nothing from the relationship, and thought it was time he moved on.

[eyethenkyew]

So, my unsympathetic replies were removed: Why? Like everyone else on here I was simply giving an opinion. Must that opinion concur with what the Ed thinks, otherwise it gets deleted?

That would appear to be the unwritten police, or else why remove my comments, i.e no swearwords or abuse, simply that I seemingly was being unsympathetic - is that a crime in the eyes of the AB Ed?

[jno]

the OP's asking for help; if you're being unhelpful, I imagine the Ed thought your posts weren't vital to the continuing rotation of the planet. If you can't say something nice, why say anything at all?

[eyethenkyew]

I'll be surprised if your "nasty" comments to me will be allowed?

[MarkRae]

Click on the OP's icon...

[smurfchops]

Purple Popple - I think it means 'I Thank You' . Remember Arthur Askey ? jno I agree with your comments. Poor cluster.

[cazzz1975]

she had a good run...

[boxtops]

ETY, you can always email the Ed (link at the bottom of the page) and ask him.

[jno]

it'll be a Christmas miracle if an answer is given, though.

As to why cluster1 is suspended, I haven't a clue. I can see nothing improper in any of her posts.

[eyethenkyew]

Thank you, boxtops, but I know how things "work" on this site. I wouldn't waste my time. Thanks anyway.

[boxtops]

Cheers ETY !

[Prudie]

I've been out for a while so now I'm confused at what is going on here (i know what AlBags is referring to but hadn't made a connectionn, I'll have to ask him).
So are we thinking this was this not a genuine question?