Would you tell your partner who else you fancy?

[Scarlett]

And I don't mean film stars- real people who you both know. Is that acceptable and just honesty, or would tact make you keep it to yourself?

[boxtops]

why would you do that? it could breed some insecurity.

[jackthehat]

Only if I was wanting to end a relationship and did have the bottle to do it in a grown-up way.............

[237SJ]

No. And I certainly wouldn`t want to know who they fancy either

[douglas9401]

Keep it to myself. Have you not seen the Peter Kay public information film? :)

[woofgang]

I think that would be really impolite

[ChuckFickens]

I'd be worried about actually "fancying" somebody else that you both know while in a relationship and question if it was worth continuing it if that's the case!

recognising somebody else is attractive in one thing and I'd share that with a partner, fancying them is different.

[society]

No. I think that could be hurtful.

[sara3]

Chuck.. looking hot tonight ;o)

[Prudie]

Certainly not unless I was deliberately trying to hurt him

[Andyvon]

Isn't 'partner' such a cold and unemotional term. Girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife etc all have a warmth and feeling about them. But 'partner' - no.

[China Doll]

I genuinely don't fancy anyone else other than man hostage... But then I tend not to fancy people before I've gotten to know them anyway and have always been like that; I can tell when someone is attractive but that's about it. I wouldn't worry about saying a bloke is a handsome fella to the man hostage and he wouldn't worry about commenting on whether a girlfriend of mine is pretty... I think that's probably different to fancying someone though.

[ummmm]

Ditto China..

[tiggerblue10]

I have to agree with CD as well on this.

[4getmenot]

no i wouldnt. I dont fancy anyone else, if i did then i wouldnt be with my man. Ive often said 'he's good looking' and my bloke doesnt mind.

[cazzz1975]

I also agree with china

[boxtops]

Me too, well put, china.

[LoftyLottie]

No. I might say someone is good looking, but never that I fancy them. I don't necessarily fancy good looking people anyway. In fact, I rarely fancy good looking people in real life!!

[4getmenot]

finding someone attractive and fancying them are totally different in my eyes

[jno]

only you and your partner know what works for you; some might be okay with it... but not any partner I've ever had.