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but, how do you vent your anger on someone who has died recently?
Brief explanation. Close member of family died a few weeks ago and I have since found out that they lived a double life, literally!. Family, kids, houses etc. Also they have racked up some huge debts which will mean selling of house to pay off.
How does one deal with the anger that you would normally release by having it out with them?
Brief explanation. Close member of family died a few weeks ago and I have since found out that they lived a double life, literally!. Family, kids, houses etc. Also they have racked up some huge debts which will mean selling of house to pay off.
How does one deal with the anger that you would normally release by having it out with them?
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Put an empty chair i the middle of the room....and use it as a focus...talk scream abuse whatever you need to do imagine they are sitting in it... or write what you feel in a letter then burn it so your words are carried with the smoke
both old methods but strangely effective then let it go...you can do no more
both old methods but strangely effective then let it go...you can do no more
Tell me once more how you're are affected to the point of such anger? Based on your somewhat meager description it appears that you don't (as they say here in the western U.S.) don't have a dog in this hunt.
If you're offended on behalf of the family or you're the one that's going to have to pay off the debt, that's another thing, but is seems to me you're expending a lot of uneccessary emotion for no sound reason... and by any reasonable measure, your rage won't pay you any dividends nor gain any pay back from the deceased, will it?
If you're offended on behalf of the family or you're the one that's going to have to pay off the debt, that's another thing, but is seems to me you're expending a lot of uneccessary emotion for no sound reason... and by any reasonable measure, your rage won't pay you any dividends nor gain any pay back from the deceased, will it?
Ice, I am so sorry you are in this position and agree with the letter writing approach also,there will come a day when you can read it or them one last time and have a bonfire. Remember this person is the loser in all this, also I knew a young lady in a similar situation and she would go to his grave and yell and pound the earth as she told him what he had done.
Not for everyone I know, take care.
Long time no speak.
Mamya♥
Not for everyone I know, take care.
Long time no speak.
Mamya♥
Thanks everyone for your answers.
Decided to do a letter and shout at an empty chair! May as well do both.
His debts and everything else going on will have a huge impact on my life and others for a very long time.
I cannot begin to tell you what has happened Clanad, and I won't tell as it's too personal. Other answers on here have been most helpful and appreciated.
Nice to hear from you mamya. X
Decided to do a letter and shout at an empty chair! May as well do both.
His debts and everything else going on will have a huge impact on my life and others for a very long time.
I cannot begin to tell you what has happened Clanad, and I won't tell as it's too personal. Other answers on here have been most helpful and appreciated.
Nice to hear from you mamya. X
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