Confused..

[leanne_1987]

There is this bloke i really fancied a while back and turned out he liked me too but we was both to shy to say or do anything about it we ended up staying as friends, hes a single dad and went to the same playgroup with his son that i went to with my daughter, we used to always take the kids out together and go to each other houses.. as we was both to shy and wanted more we drifted apart, plus we never had time together without kids, but still speak now and then. We spoke last night and spoke about my break up and about how his relationship is going, unfortunately all the feelings came back, was awake all last night thinking about him, he was flirting with me too, he said in his words
'to be honest its been really rocky we have been arguing loads recently i think we both have had enough i wont kick her out though we have new york in 4 weeks lol' he also said about looking at my pics and said i'm looking really good.. i had diff hair colour n style since i last saw him.
I dont know what to do, i think he still likes me but hes with someone else now and he can't throw her out as she wont have no were to go with her daughter, i feel really mad that we both didnt act on our feelings last year!

Should i leave it and delete his number and him off FB or see what he does with his GF, my friend lives next door to him and says they are always arguing really bad...

[leanne_1987]

sorry really long post, doesnt make much sense reading it back lol

[karenmac60]

If he's with someone else then there's not a lot you can do. Stay friends but leave it at that. If the situation should change further down the line then you should bite the bullet and tell him how you feel, but only when you are both single.

[oxemzxo]

Dont play with fire, only go back if he leaves her

[ummmm]

Leave it. If you take up with him now you'll only end up being insecure in your relationship. Wait until he's single...

[Canary42]

Don't do anything to encourage a breakup of his present relationship - it would ruin whatever future you just might have if he does come available. In the meantime keep away.

[leanne_1987]

i would definately not do anything while hes still with her and hes not the kind of man to do that either,but i really want him to leave her.. so selfish i know!

[boxtops]

Leave it, leanne - he's got someone else, don't be the cause of another couple breaking up. Don't forget that you only have his side of the story....