what a mess....

[emma_smyth]

My now ex boyfriend cheated on me at the begining of the year,he claims i upset him so much because my behaviour towards him over a two wk period was off (i was grieving for the loss of a family member i was extremely close to) ... Not only did he have sex with some one else but he used my £ to pay for his hotel and my over night bag to transport his belongigs... i was distraught he could lie so much so easily to my face! despite his fling shopping him to me and us breaking up i have still kept in touch with him over the months seeing him fairly regularly.. this is because i love him, or so i think??
My family hate him and wont have him in their house because he has a previous record of stealing/being sacked from his job and general dishonesty.. so i have kept our meetings a secret... just because i cant deal with the pressure and grief of them..

Reading this back I dont know why i cant stop seeing him, it just upsets me so much.. Even now i think if he was so bothered about a future with me he wouldnt be still encouraging other female attention, however i have proof ect that he is.. He does however tell me he loves me and wants to be with me, even after what hes done i couldnt dream of being with someone else yet.. can someone who goes on this way really care about me? It would be easier for me if i understood he didnt because then i would move on but he keeps giving me little bits of hope every now and again he will change, advice please :(...

[bloaterbum]

I
the words of J kyle don't bother with this loser -but I know you will. It's hard

[welshlibranr]

why ask, you already know the answer!......only one way if you value yourself!......get rid asap, he's no good!.....accept it!..........