Sex without Love, what are your views??

[inamuddle1]

Do you think it's possible to have sex with the same partner for a long period of time without feelings getting involved? Do you think it's easier for a man to have sex without letting his feelings get in the way, than say, it is for a woman?

I'm reading an article about Sex Buddies... that's why I ask. (nothing personal)

[boxtops]

I believe so, I have read that the male can compartmetalise sex, whereas for most women, it's an emotional commitment too.

[thenry]

Yeah I got no problem with that !

[askyourgran]

Just to satisfy an itch, a man could do that, and I believe there are lots of ladies who get paid for such things.

[Old_Geezer]

My first view is, "chance would be a fine thing".

I think different people react differently. Personally I'd imagine I'd find it difficult not to get emotionally involved, but maybe you have to be there to know.

HJaving not troied both genders in a variety of bodies the other question isn;t something I can reasonably answer, save to say I think society in general assumes the female is the more emotional gender. But it may just be the roles it places on individuals.

[inamuddle1]

hahaha... I'm reading an article... I thought this line was quite interesting...

"women get attached to their flump buddies because their bodies produce the “love hormone” – oxytocin – after they have sex. That damn oxytocin is what’s guilty of getting us hooked on the men we sleep with. But we forget one thing: men produce the famous oxytocin too. So men should fall deeply in love after Fluffing too."

[Old_Geezer]

... Having not tried both genders in a variety of bodies, the other question isn't ....

[mazie]

"fluffing" !

[inamuddle1]

fluffing :) It's cute! lol

[boxtops]

Nothing cute about flufflng, LOL

[inamuddle1]

Do you believe having sex with the same partner means a special bond has been established?

[sunny-dave]

Is that Brooke, Basildon or James ?

[joeluke]

Some people have sex with the same partner because they can't get it anywhere else, so it's either feelingless sex or no sex

There's no such thing as bad sex

[humbersloop]

and some say there's no such thing as bad publicity

I'd beg to differ

[sunny-dave]

"There's no such thing as bad sex"

http://tyneandwear.sky.com/news/article/41658

I beg to differ ...

[humbersloop]

dave, give over :)

[askyourgran]

Just bad sex partners lol sunnydave. Miss Topp was drunk, probably thought it was a McMuffin.

[inamuddle1]

oh dear!!! hahahaha That has got to have hurt!!! Ouch

[inamuddle1]

just read the whole article, the guy actually got his own back on her lol... After she bit his scrotum off, he took a restraining order out against her, they met by chance and "rekindled" their love for each other, then they split up again and he got her jailed for breaking the restraining order... LOL ***Tough love***