I think it's important to not hurl abuse at people, no matter how much you disagree with them.
It's important to have these debates, isn't it? We don't want to deter people from expressing controversial views, or our debates will start to become a bit mundane. But I think we should restrict ourselves to attacking the point ... not the person who makes the point.
How do you know that you don;t have a worlk colleague, neighbour or relative that is in a gay relationship and may one day wish to marry their choice of life partner? Would you tell them to your face that you found their life sick etc , or do you save your opinion for strangers only?
DJH: It isn't an either/or situation. I don't give my opinions to either strangers or "work colleague, neighbour or relative" s, unless it's asked for.
Bright Spark. I don't see that the mechanics of anybody's sexual relationship are any of our business.
And for the record, not all gay men indulge in the practice you are referring to.