Will A Girl Feel Bad When You Honestly Express Your Feelings (Love) To Her ?

[SimplePerson]

she knows me very well. and she likes my nature a lot. She even flirts with me. We know each other since 2 years. we both are 22.
what exactly would she think ?

I am a Boy

[hammerman]

Ask her out on a date, i would think you might terrify her if you suddenly pledged your undying love to her out of the blue.

Ask her out for dinner, see how it goes. At the end of the evening, if you're still talking, ask her if she wants to do it again. if she says yes, you know she's interested.

Slowly slowly catchee monkee, although faint heart never won fair mainden either !!!!

Good luck

[AlwaysConfused]

Most ladies prefer men. You refer to yourself as a boy, I'd say you may not be ready for a relationship.

[jomifl]

I would guess that she would be flattered at the very least.

[jomifl]

AC, I think SP is allowed to be a boy for a few more years.

[Tilly2]

How do you know her? When say she flirts with you, where is this taking place?

[ummmm]

I wouldn't express your love for her.

I would follow Hammerman's advice.

[AlwaysConfused]

The title sounds coherent yet your question doesn't. Hmmmmm

[ummmm]

The question is coherent.

[ummmm]

Can't see it myself.

[RATTER15]

AlwaysConfused, is it necessary to examine the grammar etc. just try giving a sensible answer, its not complicated, you don't need to insult the guy, he calls himself "SimplePerson" maybe for a reason, maybe he has issues.



SP, Just try flirting back and see what happens, just don't go over the top.

[AlwaysConfused]

Most people who say 'I'm crazy, me', are the most boring, normal people I know. So I'm thinking that SimplePerson may not be as Simple as he/she makes out. I've just come off of a night shift, so perhaps I am being a little extra groggy in my replies.

Apologies to SP if you are a genuine poster, my suspicions arose as you write similar to another Aber

[SimplePerson]

i just to say a few things....instead of judging my Grammer, My Profile name, My Style of writing, my genuiness etc. I would appreciate if you help me...anyway you are typing...cant you type something that would help me...me and my god know how truly i love her..my feelings dont need to be certified by YOU people..so only comment if you want to help me, otherwise no need.

[SimplePerson]

and also being simple is not a thing to be ashamed of..atleast its better than being Always Confused. I am me...yes i am simple !!!

[naomi24]

Perhaps English isn’t his first language – and if it isn't, he's doing okay. His question is clear.

As has been said, ask her out and see how it goes before declaring your feelings.

[Canary42]

Will she feel bad ?

Well, it's difficult to say without knowing you both better, but as hammerman says, beware of going in heavy-handed. If she reciprocates your feelings she may feel overwhelmed, but is she doesn't she may feel "guilty" at leading you to make such a declaration in what she regards as just a lifelong friendship. Not knowing her I may of course be well wide of the mark.

Try hammerman's strategy.

Good luck.

[Canary42]

* but if she doesn't*

[Mosaic]

I cannot believe a grown man would describe himself and his emotions in these terms.
Therefore I suggest you work on your infantilisation problems before seeking a relationship.

[naomi24]

Mosaic. That's not very nice. What's wrong with the way he's expressed himself?

[AB Editor]

SimplePerson, please ignore AC - she's not been answering in the spirit of AB.

AlwaysConfused - If you've got a problem with a poster - please report it. Talking nonsense on a thread as you have is just: 1) rude and 2) pointless spam

Please refer to this: http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/ChatterBank/Question1241361.html