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DrunkOnChocolate | 16:41 Tue 02nd Jul 2013 | Relationships & Dating
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boys take the mick of me and I don't know how to change so they like me. any boys tell me what the like in a girl? also anyone know any good online dating sites.
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Pick out the ringleader (yes with a group of bullies there is always one) and say something about him as a "mick take". Even if it's not true, something like "At least I don't look like ??????? or a ???????" where ??????? can be a strange looking cartoon character or an animal. Then walk away laughing.
21:04 Sat 13th Jul 2013
You don't have to change so they like you, you just need to meet more likeminded people. What work/ hobbies do you have?
As you are still at school I defintely would not recommend online dating sites.
I'm with factor-fiction and pixie373. It sounds like you're quite young and poss still at school (??) and I would not recommend online dating sites at your age. Don't change to make someone like you - if they don't like you for what you are, they're not worth it, so don't try and force the issue .......
No no no to online dating. Work on your confidence first. If a boy does not like the way you are naturally, then they are not the one for you.
Giz if you check this young lady's other threads, she is very young indeed, says she is adopted and her mother doesn't take a lot of notice of what she does. I guess at least if she hangs out on here. its safer than other internet places she could be.
How do they 'take the mick'? Young lads/boys often tease girls they like.
And listen to everyone else...definitely no to dating sites.
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all the boys in the school bully me. I am 1/8 Chinese. also people think I look like Dora the explorer. what could I do about it. the Chinese thing I don't care about and I will either dye my hair a different colour(thinking of a blue or blond streak but may not show) but they also bully me for having to of moved. I was originaly from England. I was adopted and they bully me about all the oving and different parents I have had
If that's what they bully you about.then they are not worth talking to...maybe they are jealous that you have seen more of the world than they have. Is there a teacher you can speak to,or does your school have a protocol in place for dealing with bullies?
Don't change yourself because of them...be proud of who and what you are. The right boy will like you for that.
Girls who are obsessed about what boys think are never attractive. Stop being so obsessed and get on with YOUR life.
Pick out the ringleader (yes with a group of bullies there is always one) and say something about him as a "mick take". Even if it's not true, something like "At least I don't look like ??????? or a ???????" where ??????? can be a strange looking cartoon character or an animal. Then walk away laughing.

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