Feelings

[Cockney_si]

Had 2 dreams now of a woman that I know is into other women but I've never actually asked her is she is into men too.

Not sure even if I should ask her about it, let alone how to go about it.

[cupid04]

Ask! You won't find out unless you do!

[boxtops]

Do you know her socially? I'm not sure why you should think she might be bisexual. I know many homosexuals of both sex, but only one bi person.

[pixie373]

Just ask her

[Cockney_si]

Yes I do know her socially, I was just worried that it might make things awkward between us.

[Sqad]

Ask her ?

You mean like "Are you JUST a lesbian?"

[cupid04]

You might end up with 2 women, lol! Isn't that every man's fantasy?

[pixie373]

Yes, sqad. That'll do it!
Or- as he put himself, "are you into men as well?"

[Baldric]

Oi, one's enough!!^^^^^

[mazie]

Sqad, behave! (LOL)

[Cockney_si]

I know she is single, it's just that I've also known some women go off men because of bad experiences and never found the right one.

[boxtops]

I've known women who go off men because of bad experiences and are perfectly happy on their own - not everyone needs a partner.

[mazie]

Do you fancy her Cockney?

[pixie373]

Being a lesbian isn't generally just someone who's had a bad experience with men. She may be bi, she may not. You'll only know if you ask. You don't even need to ask her out. You don't know her very well?

[Prudie]

Do you just want to know or are you interested in her? If interested has this also been outside of your dreams? I've dreamed about being with men that horrify me when I wake up!

[cupid04]

Who Prudie? Anyone we know?

[Cockney_si]

Yes, I do fancy her and it's probably gonna be awkard.

She's away at the moment so it's tricky.

I wish there was just some kind of social event where we could get chatting and after a few beers I can get chatting about things.

That sounds a bit wrong, but don't mean for it to.

[mazie]

Why is it going to be awkward?

[pixie373]

I don't understand why it would be awkward. You're not declaring undying love, just chatting. Do you have mutual friends?

[Baldric]

///after a few beers I can get chatting about things///

Yeh, we can all do that!
Try it before you've had a few beers, you never know, she might prefer to be chatted up by a sober guy.

[Prudie]

Can't you ask someone else in the same circle if she's bi? If she's only into women I don't see the point of this being more than a fantasy however you plan to chat her up.