What Should I Do!! Help Please.

[i8uguys]

We have been married since 1985, I met her at school when we were 15. The marriage has been very stale for a very long time. We have two children 23 and 26, we haven't had any sex or any kind of sexual contact since our youngest was born.
Just recently I have been seeing escorts, and to cut a long story short, an escort has told me that she can't stop thinking about me, my feelings are mutual.
The thing is I just can't imagine not being with my wife as I still love her, but as a friend not a lover.
Question is shall I move on and start another life with this escort at the age of 51?

[beso]

You have left it go 23 years without discussing your complete lack of sex life?

You should have seen a counselor about 22 and a half years ago.

[starone]

No need for me to add anything. It has all been said. Do something about your marriage for heaven's sake. Spice it up in some way. I cannot understand how anyone who has had two children with a woman can let life drift by in such a way.

[EDDIE51]

The Escort may just see you as a good customer and her 'feelings' are a way of getting more business from you. Ever thought of that?

[Peter Pedant]

No

[cassa333]

No.

Don't leave your wife for a prostitute. Leave her because you are unhappy but before you do that talk to her.

Ask her to go to counciling and find out, between the two of you, why you haven't had sex for 23 years. If your life is otherwise good she may (a big may lol) agree that you can go elsewhere for sex.

[Segilla]

From personal experience I recommend you do almost anything to keep your marriage going. Separation could leave you impoverished. What do your children say.