no....it wouldn't bother me. i am married to my hubby because of who he is. mental health problems, poverty, homelessness, impotence and libido problems, physical disability and all. i am at a loss to understand anyone who enters or maintains a relationship based on anything other than......do i love this person? and by that, i mean the personality, humour, frailties, capacity to love, intelligence and moral compatibility. anything else is not love, but a sham....and in some cases, prostitution (in the case of sugar daddies or other fiscal gain etc.). i feel very sorry for anybody who would choose to have a relationship with somebody other than love......and for me it was love at first sight. very weird considering i am not a romantic or touchy-feely person. so yes - it wouldn't bother me and if this question is about you, then wait for the right woman to come along. we are out there and not all of us are shallow, scheming or materialistic - as portrayed so many times in this horrible moeren society of ours.