Do You Think This Girl Likes Me? I Like Her.

[i-am_anonymous]

I like this girl and we have a lot in common. We both are home schooled, go to the same church, go to the same youth group at our church. The only thing is I am an introvert, she is social. She will sometimes complement me, say my name, say Hey or Hi, ask how my day is, offer to help me with dishes at youth group, say bye when I leave the place she is. We both help out at our church AWANA and one time when we were helping the kids remember their bible verses and she sat near the place where I usually sit. Then the kid she was helping came to me and asked what the date was. I then told him and then looked at her and she smiled and silently said "Thank you". Do you think she likes me? I want to complement her but don't know what to say and don't want to say anything wrong. I can't take her out for a coffee or a date or anything because we don't drive. We are high school age. I just want to know if you think she likes me. How do I tell her I like her? Do I send her a message? I know her older sister and we are sportive friends too and I trust her. Do I ask her if she thinks her sister likes me?

[NoMercy]

Haven't you already posted this same question before?

[Zacs-Master]

Sure has
https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Question1591134.html

[Baldric]

Well spotted NoM

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Question1591134.html

[Patsy33]

Is this a joke?...

[i-am_anonymous]

I just want to see how many people think or don't think she likes me and people stopped answering the other one. Sorry.

[NoMercy]

There's only one way to find out.... ASK HER !!!

[i-am_anonymous]

Should I send her a message? If so, what should I say? I don't want her to tell a bunch of people and then everyone think I'm weird.

[tonyav]

Surely you don't need to drive to go on a date ( at high school age ).
Are you in the USA ?.

[Old_Geezer]

No message just pluck up your courage and engage in conversation.

You must be able to find somewhere to suggest visiting as friends. When the time's right, ask her what she thinks.

You get nowhere in life by wimping out. Sooner you understand that and do something about conquering your fear and becoming familiar with social interaction the better your life will be. If you say the wrong thing and mess up once, you've gained experience that'll stand you in good stead for the rest of your life. Get your mistakes over with while you are young.

[i-am_anonymous]

I'm in Canada. I Don't want to go on a date, I just want to know if she likes me and can go from there. If I have confidence that she likes me, then I would talk to her and ask her. If I could find out if she likes me, which is what I want to know, how to ask her if she likes me. Do I send her a message? What do I say? and what does it mean if she doesn't reply.

[i-am_anonymous]

@Old_Gezzer Thanks.

[Old_Geezer]

Ask her out as friends, not as a date, and use the opportunity to find out.

[Zacs-Master]

Girls like confidence in a boy / man. Ask her to go somewhere with you when you next meet.

[kvalidir]

Pick something she likes and you know she likes and strike up a conversation about that. Like if she likes a certain band listen to their latest CD and then ask her if she's bought it yet. If yes she'll discuss this common interest with you, if no, offer to lend it to her then say something like I will try to catch them live when I can, we could go together? etc and take is slowly and sweetly. This is nice, just go with it, she won't think you're odd if you keep it borderline friendly/ interested.

[i-am_anonymous]

Okay. By what I said in the first post, does it seem as if she likes me? Asking just to get an idea of the possibility that she likes me first..

[shoota]

Yes, she likes you - go talk to her.

[Peter Pedant]

I would go for the mother if I were you
and then write a book about it

[Peter Pedant]

// Pick something she likes//

o god I thought this was ... Pickle something she likes
( and then of course have fun hand feeding the pickled whatever to her ...) hey I think I will go out and pickle something

canada - which province ?

[Peter Pedant]

// Yes, she likes you - go talk to her.//

skip the talking bit - just go over and get on with it !

[i-am_anonymous]

NB, Canada.

Okay. Thinking I want to complement her but how?
Smile at her?