For Females Only: Can It Be Possible That You Can Fall In Love With A Male This Flawed? Or Do You Think That Man Should Never Be In A Relationship?

[MM305]

- Isn't known for having airhead/idiotic tendencies,

- Grew up with any speech/mental disabilities or obstacles,

- Does not have the luxuries to live a normal adult life (license, car, job, money, house) and is not able to physically attract folks because of not having these luxuries and no being considered good-looking

- Was never incredibly popular in School because they did not have the skills in any popular major (for example, sports or music),

- Doesn't listen to the music that happens to be considered "the cool thing" for everyone else and instead listens to the music that would get them bullied, and that individual isn't physically and mentally strong and/or capable of defending themselves for any assault

Does that man has a chance of striking a relationship with a female? Or do you think that man should never be in a relationship?

[JimF]

How many times are you going to ask the same question? What is actually wrong with you?

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[MM305]

This one is asking females only, to know if they can be interested in a male like that or not.

No need to waste your time on this question if your not a female.

[JimF]

"if your not a female"

If my not a female? What language are you speaking?

[pixie374]

Unlikely. At least for a healthy relationship. It's nothing to do with the "reasons" you've given, but if you don't even like yourself, you don't sound ready for a relationship yet.

[MM305]

So do you think that man should never be pr look for a relationship since it's unlikely?

[pixie374]

Not "never"... but i would say not yet. You need to be confident and comfortable with yourself first. A relationship won't fix anything.

[MM305]

Other than therapy/doctors (since some males can't afford, find, or go to one), what will be your advice on how males can become confident and comfortable with themselves?

[scorpiojo]

Is it Groundhog Day?

[pixie374]

There are free mental health services too. Speak to GP or try silvercloud, which is online and free. Have you been diagnosed with anything?

[MM305]

No. Can't risk that now for personal and family reasons.

That's why I ask if there is any other way that does not have to involve seeing therapy/doctor.

[pixie374]

There is no risk, mm. It is entirely confidential, nobody else will know.

[MM305]

Is pixie the only female here?

No other ladies can answer?

[Smowball]

People are attracted to all different kinds of people - nobody has the same taste. Mr Smow wouldn’t class himself as good looking but he is highly intelligent and has a beautiful speaking voice, which is what I love about him - his looks don’t matter to me.

[douglas9401]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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