Can Single Younger Guy Be Interested In Older Married Woman? I Like This Guy And We Have Met Gazes, He Sounded Sheepish And Nervous When We Traded His. Seems To Avoid Me But Looks At Me When Around. What Does It Mean? Is He Interested?

[tynytown]

Can a single younger guy be interested in older married woman? I like this guy at the gym and we have met gazes, he sounded sheepish and nervous when we traded hellos. Seems to avoid me since our gazes met but looks at me when around me. What does it mean? Is he interested? We are some 15-20 years different in age and he has met my husband and kids.

[cashier]

You are married, leave him alone.

[Mamyalynne]

He may well be interested but don't encourage him.

[barry1010]

I think you've scared him to death

[Prudie]

Been there, done that, world of pain with permanent scarring. Don't go there.

[Sqad]

Perfect situation.........a young bloke and an older woman who is bored with her husband and is getting older.
These women make perfect mistresses as they are always grateful as they never know if it is their their last sexual encounter.
Make it clear that it is not a meaningful relationship but just a bit if excitement.

As you leave the gym,slip her a note with your email address I guarantee that she will reply within 24 hours.

Nothing to lose, just go for it

[barry1010]

The OP is the older woman, Sqad - and he isn't interested.

[Khandro]

Are you Mrs Robinson?

[Sqad]

Sorry.....sorry I seem to have got it the wrong way round lol, my post still applies.

[aelmpvw]

the young fellow is probably building up the courage to ask you if he can date your daughter . . .

[barry1010]

That's more like it, ael. Or her son :D

[LeonBlank1995]

I would like to know how he has met your husband and kids when all you have done is said a few hellos at the gym.

For you, you are a bit saggy (hence the gym) and probably feel a bit dowdy with the kids.

For him, every hole is a goal.

My advice, concentrate on your marriage and inject some spice into it. Drop the kids off at the grandparents and maybe consider pegging or watersports as an alternative to vanilla.

Good luck.

[LadyCG]

How do you know he's single?

Whether he secretly fancies you or feels creeped out because he thinks you fancy him (and the feeling isn't mutual) he is still much younger, you are married with kid, need I go on?

For the sake of everything you hold dear - including your dignity - stay well alone. No silly crush is worth risking everything for.