They Just Can't Help It, Can They.-Jermy...
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If you were friends with someone you met online for the last six years, and you had been through A LOT together...and suddenly you realized you loved the person and told them that...and the person tells you they love you, too...but you constantly question it, and still the person states they love you, too...and then suddenly, for no reason and out of the blue, the person tells you that they don't love you, not the way you love them...how would you react to this? I should mention that this man lives across the country from me (we had plans to meet) and there is quite an age difference...he is 52 and I am only 25. But the age did not matter to me. I am just really hurt that he would lead me on...even when I tried to just go back to computer buddies he said that was not what he wanted. Other things have happened, and I have left out a lot of details, but this is the core situation here. Why would someone do that?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Thanks RubyRose :) Aliceband, the reason we have not met...well there are a few reasons. For the first few years, we were just chat buddies and it never really occured to me that we would ever meet. And I had a few relationships... I had brought up us meeting in the past, and he seemed to not take me seriously... But with the new love and all, I was being serious about meeting and he said if I sent him plane tickets, he would use them. I even asked him over the phone, and he seemed serious about it. We had plans to meet in September, but he was going to come here. There is no way I'd go visit him in the stupid state he lives in. jamwan55, I think there is a lot of truth to that...maybe it was all just a "fantasy" for him that became too real when I mentioned us meeting sooner. His Birthday is next month and I asked him if he would like to meet sooner (I was going to surprise him with plane tickets) and when I mentioned meeting sooner he made an excuse, saying it was too expensive. Blyss, I thought about that too. But we have talked for so long, I really don't think he is married. We just recently had started talking on the phone more. I honestly think this man prefers to be alone, never in a relationship. I am not "in love" with him, and live miles away from him, yet he still trashed everything. I am just amazed... Oh, and our friendship was very personal. We were best friends. It is all gone now. :(