Boyfriend

[ellenblue]

Hi all, would just like some opions/answers on this one if you could please! I split up with my boyfriend about 7 months ago (my decision), he never really trusted me and we used to argue quite a lot. After we split up we still spent a lot of time together and got back together a couple of times,however about a month ago he started playing his old tricks again so I ignored him for about 2 weeks when he text or rang. I then seen him out and tried to speak to him and he wouldn't speak to me at all and I was very upset at this and now I miss him more than ever and want him back but he won't answer my calls or anything and I don't know why cause he has told his mates and things that he still loves me, one of his so called friends has told him that I splet with someone else even tho it wasn't true and I'm pretty sure that he had one night stand with someone to try and get back at me, but if he still loves me, why is he doing this? And altho he was quite horrible to me sometims, I can't help wanting him back even tho I know he hasn;t changed, I'm so confused, help!!!!!

[dot.hawkes]

hi ellen, I think probably you have both behaved badly and in an immature way, that might sound hurtful but no point sugar coatinf stuff, never rely on what a third party tells you as you never know their motives. Move on as you are both wasting energy on a relationship that was not serious in the first place.

[Eric Git]

Hi,

Quick Question how old are you? The more you chase a bloke the more they will ignore you, or worse, give you attention when they want to and then drop you like a hot potatoe when they are bored. Trust me, he's no good for you and if you think about it, if he really cared for you, he wouldn't put you through so much pain and hurt, stop making excuses for him, he's a git. I know that it's a horrible thing to come to terms with, but the sooner you do the better. As soon as you are seen out enjoying yourself without asking about him then he'll start making his moves on you, ignore them, politely tell him that you are over him now and it was nice to see him ,but you're a bit busy. If you tell him to go away straight he'll just keep on at you as he knows that he has got your attention, if you show interest then he'll continue to treat you as he has been doingm which is wrong, so be polite and then get on with enjoying your self, believe me he's not the one for you and you deserve someone so much better than that, and he's out there somewhere. Good luck

[4getmenot]

You know what you should do, give salisbury aka jibjab a call and get it together :-)

[Champagne]

ROFL @ 4getmenot! That's just what I was thinking!! In fact, I think his new incarnation may be hermit.

[4getmenot]

and I was in no way being nasty ellen, but I think we should all forget about exes and seen as Salisbury needs to aswell you�d make a great couple :-)

[girl_lesbian]

You say you were upset when you saw him whilst you were out and he ignored you, yet for two weeks prior to this you had been ignoring his texts and calls. What did you expect? And to say you are now hurt that he is ignoring your calls, how do you think he felt when you did that to him?

I think it is time for you to grow up and move on from this relationship.

[goldilocks24]

i have been in the exact same situation as you - you only want him because you cant have him!!!

he is giving you the run around and as the saying goes " treat them mean, keep them keen"

[WendyS]

I'm inclined to think that if this relationship was going to work, everything would have been right in the first place and you wouldn't have split up. All these comings and goings between you are doing neither of you any good. Just put it down to experience and the fact that you were incompatible and move on. You both sound as if you're acting like young children and no permanent solid relationship will thrive on this kind of immaturity.