bisexual-say something or not

[4whatsername]

Im confused. Ive really thought about it for a long time and am sure im bisexual. I know that i enjoy females and males. I know many women take normal feelings to be homosexual feelings but i know this isnt the case for me. The only person i feel i okay talking to is my best friend. I dont know if i can. We have talked before about our sexual orientation and decieded to make out to see if we did have feelings for the same sex. She was very quickly sure that she didnt and i told her i agreed. I knew it would have been uncomfortable if i told her i enjoyed it. It wasnt has much her has it was a female. I want to tell her the truth but dont want to make her think i have a bisexual crush on her. What do i do?

[twain11]

I think it's quite fashionable to say you are bisexual nowadays, a lot of people seem to think they are looked on as cool by saying it so go for it.

[Suzyboo]

Wouldn't rush into it until the conversation comes up or until you meet a woman you want a relationship with but would it not be possible to say that although you don't feel that way about her, you are attracted to some women?

[awoman]

I really believe a lot more women think about this than you think.
It's not necessarily a 'fashion' Twain, but probably has something to do with women being a lot more 'engaging', emotional, receptive, sexy and have less repulsive habits basically. I'm pretty sure most women go through *at least* a phase where they give it some thought. Most men probably have the same identification with other men at some point too, it's natural.
Oops, better not tell my boyf!!

[chrissiekins]

I really believe that a lot more women think about this than you realise.
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to another woman - most of us are at some stage in our lives - either because we want to be like them so much that we blur the line between admiration and adulation, or simply because we find them attractive. Let's face it - women by their very nature are more receptive, emotional, sexy, mysterious etc... and men are just a bit, well, predictable and 2D (which by the way, is fine too!).
Embrace it, but don't panic! If you like girls, you like girls - explain to your friend that you're up for trying anything, and this week/month/year it's women! (are you young enough to think it's a *phase*?)
God, I hope my lovely blokey doesn't read this, LOL!