My little sis keeps asking me if she is wierd cos she hasn't snogged any guy and shes 15- what shall i say? cos i had and i don't wanna upset her! thanks for helping in a kinda delicate matter! x
Hmmm, maybe you should just tell her what you did when you was younger and how you went about it, but dont brag about it. Just explain that its not that much of a big deal, even though it really is...
Just because you had that makes it bad that she hasnt, just say no not at all. I'm sure many people hadnt had a proper full on snog by that age and I bet most of her friends that say they have are lying, tell her to enjoy being young while she can.
Don't suppose you have to tell her your own experience. But I guess what's worrying her is not that she lacks snogging experience but that nobody seems to like her? Maybe she's afraid people think she's a lesbian or something? In that case, if she really is weird in some way, and you love her, you could tell her (stop dribbling! Don't paint your face green! or whatever). But if she's not weird, and it just hasn't happened yet and you're sure it will sooner or later, tell her so.
To be honest i think its good to hear in this day and age. I was 16-17 when I had my first proper snog. It wasnt that no-one had asked I just didnt want to!
Hell I will be the happiest mum ever if my daughter asks me the same thing when she is 15. Tell her not to worry!
I was 15 when I first got kissed and I'm still with the lad four years later so its definitely worth waiting for! Watch Never Been Kissed with her...that always used to cheer me up no end when I thought I was the only one who hadn't been kissed!
I was 16 1/2 when I had my first kiss... Didn't see the point before that! Now I'm 25, been engaged once, had a 7 year relationship and now in my second serious relationship since that split up! I just took my time and I feel it taught me to have respect for myself and not to do things just because others were!