marriage

[charlotte247]

ok, this is not me, but my freind (cliche i know but gods honest truth) is going out with this guy, but this guy likes going to bondage group, my freind sees this as cheating, but now he has asked her to marry him, that he loves her, but shes not sure? any advice?
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[Maggie-Mae]

If your friend sees this a being unfaithful (and I cant blame her) when they are bg/gf, she is going to feel even worse about it when they're married unless he is prepared to give it up. Im not going to judge the bloke for his "preferences" but unless this was a joint thing and she went along with him, I dont really see how he can expect her to accept this within a marriage.

[originalspa]

It really depends on what he gets up to in these 'bondage group'!! Is it like a club or where they sit around talking about the latest methods?!!

Seriously, if he goes there to spectate, then fine but to put her mind at ease, she should go with him and find out what's it al;l about as it may surprise her!! If she doesn't like it then fine but communication is the key here! She needs to discuss it with him before she enters any commitment as once she's married, it could be a completely different kettle of fish altogether!

I can't believe she's even thinking about it if she's having these doubts now!

[stokeace]

he might just want to chain her to the kitchen sink lol sorry couldnt resist that 1 lol hope things turn out well for her............................................................................

[ConfusedMum]

well if she sees it as cheating what's the point in you even asking the question? surly she has her answer?

you didn't say what he does at these groups? does she even know what he does at these groups?

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[WendyS]

Tell her to steer well clear. If she's not sure she should follow her instincts and find somebody else who comes unaccompanied by such needs.