sister boyfriend trouble

[babscartland]

I live oposite my sister. and shes recently moved her scottish boyfriend in. He tells her hes a area manager for pepsi. but every day when she goes to work,he always comes back 10 minutes after her and stays there all day. He tells her hes having a admin day,but i know for a fact he sits on the settee watching itv2 ailday with heating on full blast. when I popped in the other day he was sat there with his shorts on complaining it was to hot! How do i tell her that her scottish boyfriend is a layabout?

[Blyss]

just tell her , but say it n a nice way ..like ...hey I seen that fat greasy bf od urs sitin in his boxers watching loose woman today , he sure dont look like hes working.
In the end its your sisters relationship and its up to her what she does and what he does in there own home.

[crete]

why is is significant that he is scottish ? do other nationalities not deceive their partners ? just tell her what you have seen.

[babscartland]

well i always thought the scottish were a bit bone idol anyway? or is that the welsh?

[crete]

hey maybe its the english in my experience . : )

[janetsflower]

If thats what he is doing then where is his income coming from - surely he cannot deceive her for very long if she thinks he is earning good money and he's not? Best to keep as much out of it as you can, these things an have a nasty knack of backfiring on you. Just be there fr her when she finds out and the poop hits the fan

[vehelpfulguy]

Why not suggest that SHE pops back early one day and finds him at home.

Then she will have to sort it out.

[curlyperm]

why not phone Pepsi, and ask for the admin dept?

[Annlinda]

Film him on your mobile and send it to your sister

[alijangra]

I dont see the need for slating Scottish peeps, really uncalled for.

[THAIBUS]

I thought they only Drunk Iron Brew in Scottland

[Cheesefreek]

She'll soon find out, whether you say anything or not. Then it's up to her.

[mycats]

EXCUSE ME?? Us Scottish are bone idle (at least we can spell it by the way) what a bloody cheek, mind your own business

[sarnieken]

I think you struck a nerve with mycats.
If the guy is stiffing her for money then it is your duty to look after your sister.
If he's not and is literally just being lazy on his days off then I'm afraid you can't really do a great deal. He isn't breaking the law, just being a bit of a tool in that he can't work the heating.
K

[Whickerman]

phone her and tell her there's an intruder in her house...

[Pippa68]

Sorry but I have this image of you looking through your curtains at your sisters half naked scottish boyfriend watching TV . Can you not get ITV2 in your house? ;o)

Seriously, all you need to do is tell your sister that you have seen him go back home regularly..like EVERY day. No need to elaborate from there.

[caz247]

what business is it of yours what he does all day,
where do you find the time to watch him

caz x

ps. i am Glaswegian and fortunately not idle
and able to spell

[carrot99]

How do you tell her that her scottish boyfriend is a layabout? In the same way that you told Jill16 to have her cat put down for less bad behaviour!

[shanx]

hello!!! is it pick on the celts or no?good and bad where ever you are from,what are you doing all day ? seems like living in the land off twitching curtains.

[tull456]

There is no need for your uncalled for comments towards the Scottish

[story_teller]

i agree with caz im english btw and i dont find the scottish ppl lazy ive had many a good time up there if my job would allow i would move there....also what do you do all day to spy on him???....im guessing you dont work ...so who is bone idle now????...ppl in glass houses shouldnt throw stones