Liking a girl who im not sure likes me

[chris1987uk]

I have recently started going out alot with this girl from work(really good mates) who kept askin me to go for a drink, so i decided to and have been going out almost every week now for last 2 months(worked with her for 7months), anyways the problem is i really like her more than a mate and im not sure if she feels the same, she gives of signals that she does like she sits and stairs in my eyes, plays with her hair and plays footsy under the table then blames me for it and if i get a txt she gets enoyed and is like is that ur girlfriend etc etc. But then sumtimes she starts going out about this guy she likes who also works in our company. How do i go about telling her i like her more than a mate, without spoiling out friendship, plus how do i find out if she likes me without actually asking her?

[CheekyChops]

I would say that the signs are all there, she definately fancies you! I reckon she is only going on about another guy to try and get a reaction out of you, see if you are jealous.

Bite the bullet and ask her out - the worst she can say is no but I bet she doesn't.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, if you have known her for ages and are more on a 'friendship' relationship then it will never work. She will only ever see you as a friend. You could probably have sex with her, but it wont mean anything.
It seems she knows she has a hold over you and can get you whenever she likes. A lot of girls dont go for easy/desperate lads and they can sense it on a person too. Why not just ask her what she is doing one weekend and if she says she isnt doing anything, just slip in the question' Do you fancy going bowling or cinema or summat'...

[starry eyes]

Has she ever mentioned the name of the guy at your work that she likes.....have you ever considered she could be talking about you......
ask her out. x

[deepseadiver]

I would try the sex thing ..If you get a slap in the face at least you know where you stand.Friendships and relationships are not really the same thing!