feeling deprssed, just need to moan!!!

[starry eyes]

I know its the time of year, what with valenines day ect, but im feeling really depressed at the moment. All my mates are slowly getting boyf's and i feel like im gonna be single forever. I feel like im too fat for a bloke to ever wanna be with me! and if it's not my weight i worry about with men, then i think they wont like me cos i have a rubbish personality!! Is anyone else feeling this way, im hoping its just cos there is so many loved up people out there and im hopeing it will go away , but iv been feeling like this for a while now!

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i think its a girl thing. I have been single for ages, and always think about stuff, but never really got depressed.
I wouldnt worry about your weight, lots of guys out there like the larger lady. Your personality may put a lot of guys off though.
If you feel down, then that will show in your appearence. Best thing you can do is try to get out more and socialise. Dont know how old you are but why not try out (if your not too proud) a 'reputable' dating site and meet people who dont even know you. That way you can be a little more relaxed and not have to worry about what other people are doing.
I know it must be hard for you at this time of year when everyone is getting cards, etc. but you need to sort out something yourself as no one is gonna sort anything out for you...

[sarnieken]

Know what you mean starry eyes,
times of the year like this make you wonder if you will ever meet the right person or if you're doomed to spend the rest of your life single.
My twin brother and his wife recently had their first child which really brought it home.

All I can recommend is to stick at it and just remember that you are amazing. Someone out there is looking for exactly everything that you have to offer. He is seeking out someone who ticks all the boxes and that person is you.

Everyone has days where they feel cr*p or low.
My advice would be to organise a girly night / day out with your friends where their fellas aren't invited. Treat yourself to a new outfit, hairdo or complete makeover and get yourself out there. Am certain that guys will be falling over themselves.
Hope it helps, hang in there.

[sense4all]

We rarely see ourselves the way that others do .Better to be yourself and happy than half of a less than ideally suited couple.
Do not settle, please, stuff happens when and where you least expect it! For my mates this has always been true - infact one is getting married this summer, she met him at a party she didn't want to go to, he was the plus one friend of her arch rival at work ... see you can't make this stuff up! She was determined not to like him (look who brought him ) He was persistant in getting her to go on a date and they are happy - he had been on his own for years too.

Have a Spa day and go do an activity you love - or something you have never done before. Live it up! Get yourself out there girl. Love Sense.x

[Skreecheeboy]

I think your a lovely person Starry and as long as you're not massively obese then I can't see why any guy wouldn't want you. I've been feeling pretty down lately too but you can't beat yourself up over nothing!