Whats the next step??

[starry eyes]

Ok, i now have my eye on ANOTHER guy!!!! Anyways, he comes into my work sometimes to collect stuff, (as his company does some work for my company). we dont really say anything other than hello. I sometimes see him out - clubbing, and he always says hello, sometimes we even have a hug, kiss (not snog) and chat. Iv now decided that i quite like him (never really paid attention to him before!) How do i get us talking...do i start a conversation when he next comes into my work, (baring in mind that i am really shy) or wait until i see him out next (and hope that i do see him) and see what happens when we've both had a few to drink - and i feel more confident than normal??? I dont even know if he has a girlf.........advise greatly appreciated!!!!!

[sarnieken]

Evening Starry, hope you are well on this winter's nite.

You are in a good position in that you've seen him out socially. You have a subject about which you can start a conversation. Maybe make a comment about the club, how crap the dj was, did he have a good time etc.

If you didn't see him with anyone then ask him if his girlfriend had a good time as well. If he says ' Haven't got one ' then you could arrange to meet him somewhere the next time you are both out before you end up at the club. Don't meet at the club as conversations are hideously difficult to hold in a nightclub.

If he says 'She enjoyed it' or 'No but my boyfriend did' then I'm afraid you're out of luck.