Going on a 2nd 'date' tonight..

[xAsh]

Remember i posted on here a while ago about me going out with this girl from work, well we went to the cinema and had a good time. We're going again tonight to watch Hot Fuzz again at the movies, we enjoy ourselves there. I really like her and i think she likes me. Last time we just laughed in the cinema and that without hugging, holding hands or anything.. Tonight to see if she's interested what do i do? Is it wrong just to put your arm around her or hold hands. Im a shy guy who doesnt have much confidence but dont know if she likes me that way, but we really have fun and act normal around each other. Is there anything i can say to give her a hint or possibly sign to push us on to the next stage, contact etc. I just wanna get close to her in that way but without ruining our friendship that we've had for a good 6 months. But i just dont want to go to the cinema like last time without holding hands etc. She likes me because she can trust me she says unlike her other boyfriends, but i dont know how i can get into the situation whereby i put my arm around her etc... Im not too good with girls so any help would be appreciated. Thanks a lot and ill let u know how it goes

[Scotman84]

Well, she went out with you didn't she? Cinema is not a great date (well it probably is cos you don't have to talk), but a meal may be better - even a burger - so you can chat - chatting is a much better way to sus out people - try dripping sauce down your chin and see if she laughs or wipes it off - there are LOTS of signals - good luck !!!!

[xAsh]

lol thanks.

Ill try, ill ask her if she wants to go for a meal tuesday or something.

I find the way i can make her laugh is sarcastic humour. It's not natural but it makes her laugh lol.


Anyway, later guys and cheers.

[Sasha13]

If the date goes well, how about a kiss on the cheek at the end of the evening? That will give you a clue about how comfortable she is with physical contact.

[Scotman84]

Dontask - can I have your details? 2nd date down the knickers - maybe I'm getting old !!!!! lol

[Scotman84]

If you can make her laugh then that's half the battle - just tell her that since this is your second date you deserve to get into her knickers !!!

[dontask]

dont ask what i do on 3rd date lol

[Scotman84]

NOT !!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

[Scotman84]

dontask - I think I love you !!

[dontask]

well legend loves me to lol im 2 old for you lol

[Scotman84]

never too old - but with your outlook you could possiblily kill me lol !!

[dontask]

if you were born 84 im a lot older

[Scotman84]

omg 56 1111

[Scotman84]

!!!!

[dontask]

im not 56

[Scotman84]

no - hope not - 51

[dontask]

lot younger but im not saying so dont ask

[Scotman84]

I ask yount souldlt your numbers?

[dontask]

what