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should i move on or try to get to the bottom of it?
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Met this guy a year ago - went out a few times then he stopped calling - i felt he wasn't interested and moved on after awhile - then out of the blue he txt and said he had lost his fone - but i was going travelling for a few weeks - went off travelling and he emailed the whole time i was gone - came back and we met up and took up where we left off - got on well - even went to a wedding and met all his friends - now i've heard nothing from him in a few weeks?should i again move on or try to get to the bottom of it?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.well, I haven't exactly offered you much comfort! By all means don't write him off if you enjoy his company, but honestly I wouldn't invest much emotional capital in him at the moment - stay friendly if he returns but don't look on him as long-term bf material unless he comes up with a damn good explanation and apology. And good luck
No, no, no Mammar - if he hasn't got in touch, he's not interested, sorry - the lost phone I can almost guarantee is an excuse - he backed off, then decided he fancied a bit again so got back in touch, then changed his mind again. Unfortunately, even if you do contact him, I bet he says 'it's not me, it's you' or 'I'm just not ready for a relationship' - whatever he says is just likely to leave you wanting more answers. Try to move on - sorry if this sounds harsh but it's true. Good luck x
I was curious and did call but got no answer - so decided to let it go - but the curiosity is killing me!!lol and yeah i kinda agree with sash - i feel he's just decided not to continue - infact i think i'm more annoyed with his lack of honesty or respect than the fact i'm not seeing him!! thanx anyway guys xx